"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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How to react to Dreamy eyes

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Heres a scenario ive run into before:

Woman is sitting with her boyfriend/date, and she turns around and gives me dreamy eyes. I looked at her in eyes, very calm, with no facial expression except me blinking. She breaks eye contact.
To my knowledge she never looked back again. How would you guys react to show your interest once she give you the dreamy eyes.(If she was alone I would of approached her). I would of smiled but I didn't have it in me that moment, it would of came out as one of those half smiles. Do you think smirking with a wink would do?

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Crissco said:
Heres a scenario ive run into before:

Woman is sitting with her boyfriend/date, and she turns around and gives me dreamy eyes. I looked at her in eyes, very calm, with no facial expression except me blinking. She breaks eye contact.
To my knowledge she never looked back again. How would you guys react to show your interest once she give you the dreamy eyes.(If she was alone I would of approached her). I would of smiled but I didn't have it in me that moment, it would of came out as one of those half smiles. Do you think smirking with a wink would do?

Crissco
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I don't get it, especially whenever a girls staring at you that's what you wake up in the morning and live for
 
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Dante420 said:
I don't get it, especially whenever a girls staring at you that's what you wake up in the morning and live for
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It felt real good. I was enjoying the moment and I didn't really think to smile and knew if I did it would come off as a half smile, which feels weird.
You also gotta think to, why would you want a women with baggage(BF,Married). When you can find a single one equally as hot with no baggage.
 
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Just smile at her. It doesn't mean you have to hook up with her.
 
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Crissco said:
Heres a scenario ive run into before:

Woman is sitting with her boyfriend/date, and she turns around and gives me dreamy eyes. I looked at her in eyes, very calm, with no facial expression except me blinking. She breaks eye contact.
To my knowledge she never looked back again. How would you guys react to show your interest once she give you the dreamy eyes.(If she was alone I would of approached her). I would of smiled but I didn't have it in me that moment, it would of came out as one of those half smiles. Do you think smirking with a wink would do?

Crissco
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Wow, over analyze much? When a girl gives the "dreamy" eyes, it means "come and talk to me"
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Wow, over analyze much? When a girl gives the "dreamy" eyes, it means "come and talk to me"
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Yea I tend to do that occasionally haha. The reason I didnt go and talk to her was because she was with someone.
 
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Yea I tend to do that occasionally haha. The reason I didnt go and talk to her was because she was with someone.
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So?

The situation is not always going to be how you want it, girls are not always going to be out on their own, making eyes at hunky strangers. You've got to take the initiative and get out of your comfort zone. You may even find them easier to talk to when they are with friends (I sure do).
 
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So?

The situation is not always going to be how you want it, girls are not always going to be out on their own, making eyes at hunky strangers. You've got to take the initiative and get out of your comfort zone. You may even find them easier to talk to when they are with friends (I sure do).
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She was drinking wine with a guy, she was probably on a date bro.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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CarlitosWay said:
could have been a brother, cousin, mutual friend, best friend, work acquittance. Who knows :)
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(Evil ha ha ha laugh) :crackup: I like ya thinkin
 
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