"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How to react to Dreamy eyes

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Heres a scenario ive run into before:

Woman is sitting with her boyfriend/date, and she turns around and gives me dreamy eyes. I looked at her in eyes, very calm, with no facial expression except me blinking. She breaks eye contact.
To my knowledge she never looked back again. How would you guys react to show your interest once she give you the dreamy eyes.(If she was alone I would of approached her). I would of smiled but I didn't have it in me that moment, it would of came out as one of those half smiles. Do you think smirking with a wink would do?

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Crissco said:
Heres a scenario ive run into before:

Woman is sitting with her boyfriend/date, and she turns around and gives me dreamy eyes. I looked at her in eyes, very calm, with no facial expression except me blinking. She breaks eye contact.
To my knowledge she never looked back again. How would you guys react to show your interest once she give you the dreamy eyes.(If she was alone I would of approached her). I would of smiled but I didn't have it in me that moment, it would of came out as one of those half smiles. Do you think smirking with a wink would do?

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I don't get it, especially whenever a girls staring at you that's what you wake up in the morning and live for
 
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Dante420 said:
I don't get it, especially whenever a girls staring at you that's what you wake up in the morning and live for
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It felt real good. I was enjoying the moment and I didn't really think to smile and knew if I did it would come off as a half smile, which feels weird.
You also gotta think to, why would you want a women with baggage(BF,Married). When you can find a single one equally as hot with no baggage.
 
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Just smile at her. It doesn't mean you have to hook up with her.
 
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Crissco said:
Heres a scenario ive run into before:

Woman is sitting with her boyfriend/date, and she turns around and gives me dreamy eyes. I looked at her in eyes, very calm, with no facial expression except me blinking. She breaks eye contact.
To my knowledge she never looked back again. How would you guys react to show your interest once she give you the dreamy eyes.(If she was alone I would of approached her). I would of smiled but I didn't have it in me that moment, it would of came out as one of those half smiles. Do you think smirking with a wink would do?

Crissco
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Wow, over analyze much? When a girl gives the "dreamy" eyes, it means "come and talk to me"
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Wow, over analyze much? When a girl gives the "dreamy" eyes, it means "come and talk to me"
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Yea I tend to do that occasionally haha. The reason I didnt go and talk to her was because she was with someone.
 
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Yea I tend to do that occasionally haha. The reason I didnt go and talk to her was because she was with someone.
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So?

The situation is not always going to be how you want it, girls are not always going to be out on their own, making eyes at hunky strangers. You've got to take the initiative and get out of your comfort zone. You may even find them easier to talk to when they are with friends (I sure do).
 
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So?

The situation is not always going to be how you want it, girls are not always going to be out on their own, making eyes at hunky strangers. You've got to take the initiative and get out of your comfort zone. You may even find them easier to talk to when they are with friends (I sure do).
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She was drinking wine with a guy, she was probably on a date bro.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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CarlitosWay said:
could have been a brother, cousin, mutual friend, best friend, work acquittance. Who knows :)
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(Evil ha ha ha laugh) :crackup: I like ya thinkin
 
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