Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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I went on 4 dates with this chick, heavy make-out and some more, but she doesn't interest me anymore. How should I go about "stopping" with her ? Just not call her anymore ? There's nothing serious between us (obviously, after 4 dates ... lol), so is it necessary to "talk to her about it", or would she get the actions alone ?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Well if you are looking for a LTR then just stop seeing her.

But if you are in it for some action, then stick with her.

Could you also expand a bit on your post? If you are in it for action, it looks like shes interested, so why not continue?
 
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He's not interested, it does it matter why.

I know some girls get pissed if you jst stop calling them instead of telling them you don't want to go out anymore. Don't call and if she calls you tell her you don't want to go out anymore.
 
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Right but if he wasn't interested, why did he date her on 4 seperate occasions? Need some clarification.
 
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Originally posted by Zod
Right but if he wasn't interested, why did he date her on 4 seperate occasions? Need some clarification.
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It can take a few dates to decide if you do or don't like someone. I think the questions academic.

Just be honest, thats what I say. LJBF her if you're feeling a bit chicken.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by aftershock
It can take a few dates to decide if you do or don't like someone. I think the questions academic.

Just be honest, thats what I say. LJBF her if you're feeling a bit chicken.
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What's he after though? A LTR, or a physical one?
 
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