"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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How to quit ?

AlexTheGreat

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I went on 4 dates with this chick, heavy make-out and some more, but she doesn't interest me anymore. How should I go about "stopping" with her ? Just not call her anymore ? There's nothing serious between us (obviously, after 4 dates ... lol), so is it necessary to "talk to her about it", or would she get the actions alone ?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Zod

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Well if you are looking for a LTR then just stop seeing her.

But if you are in it for some action, then stick with her.

Could you also expand a bit on your post? If you are in it for action, it looks like shes interested, so why not continue?
 

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He's not interested, it does it matter why.

I know some girls get pissed if you jst stop calling them instead of telling them you don't want to go out anymore. Don't call and if she calls you tell her you don't want to go out anymore.
 

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Right but if he wasn't interested, why did he date her on 4 seperate occasions? Need some clarification.
 
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Originally posted by Zod
Right but if he wasn't interested, why did he date her on 4 seperate occasions? Need some clarification.
It can take a few dates to decide if you do or don't like someone. I think the questions academic.

Just be honest, thats what I say. LJBF her if you're feeling a bit chicken.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Zod

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Originally posted by aftershock
It can take a few dates to decide if you do or don't like someone. I think the questions academic.

Just be honest, thats what I say. LJBF her if you're feeling a bit chicken.
What's he after though? A LTR, or a physical one?
 
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