"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
How To Put My Arm Around Her In The Movies?!?!
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
The more you worry, the more it'll screw you up. \
i speak from experience...i was worrying so much during the movie with this one chick that i was too scared to pull a move, and i wasn't calm and being fun. and that screwed the date up and she left me after that.
During the movie, if the moment feels right then put your arm around her, its not that hard. Don't think about it too much, just do it!
The longer you wait, the more nervous you get, the more your scared to do it.
Remember this: "Don't be scared, there is nothing to be scared of."
Good luck
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
if it's a scary movie, when shes scared put your arm around her and jokingly cheer her up.
thats all i can think of cuz i never go to the theater =P
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
The girl showed up a few minutes after the movie had started (we decided last minute to go, so I knew she'd be late). So she started asking questions about what she'd missed.
I put my arm around her and got in real close so I could whisper to her what was going on. Once I was done talking I just didn't move my arm, and she got comfortable.
viola!
Whisper sarcastic comments about the previews to her, and get more kino, touch her head and hair, confidently. You don't have to put your arm round her, it's not as important as getting lots of touching generally.
There's also the Mickey Rourke popcorn-surprise technique, but that's a little advanced.
Distant Light
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WTF your thinking about putting you're arm around her. First of all focus on seeing if she doesn't fuvking flake. Second of all worry about having fuvking fun.
Your trying to plan out a way to put you're arm around a fuvking girl. Reread the ways you've said, sounds like a fuvking movie or some lame ass kid trying to feel up on a girl. If you want to put you're arm around a girl then fuvking do it.
IF you FRAME is strong then you can get away with anything...
FRAME CONTROL! FRAME CONTROL!! FRAME CONTROL!!!
Post back on you're results, I can already smell that its going to go bad.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Thank you, this is so retarded.Taviii said:
How do you kiss her? You go in for the kiss
How do you put your arm around her shoulder? You put your arm around her shoulder.
Pretty self explanatory. Do it one time. If it fits the moment she won't think anything of it. Trust us.
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