"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
How To Put My Arm Around Her In The Movies?!?!
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
The more you worry, the more it'll screw you up. \
i speak from experience...i was worrying so much during the movie with this one chick that i was too scared to pull a move, and i wasn't calm and being fun. and that screwed the date up and she left me after that.
During the movie, if the moment feels right then put your arm around her, its not that hard. Don't think about it too much, just do it!
The longer you wait, the more nervous you get, the more your scared to do it.
Remember this: "Don't be scared, there is nothing to be scared of."
Good luck
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
if it's a scary movie, when shes scared put your arm around her and jokingly cheer her up.
thats all i can think of cuz i never go to the theater =P
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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
The girl showed up a few minutes after the movie had started (we decided last minute to go, so I knew she'd be late). So she started asking questions about what she'd missed.
I put my arm around her and got in real close so I could whisper to her what was going on. Once I was done talking I just didn't move my arm, and she got comfortable.
viola!
Whisper sarcastic comments about the previews to her, and get more kino, touch her head and hair, confidently. You don't have to put your arm round her, it's not as important as getting lots of touching generally.
There's also the Mickey Rourke popcorn-surprise technique, but that's a little advanced.
Distant Light
Master Don Juan
WTF your thinking about putting you're arm around her. First of all focus on seeing if she doesn't fuvking flake. Second of all worry about having fuvking fun.
Your trying to plan out a way to put you're arm around a fuvking girl. Reread the ways you've said, sounds like a fuvking movie or some lame ass kid trying to feel up on a girl. If you want to put you're arm around a girl then fuvking do it.
IF you FRAME is strong then you can get away with anything...
FRAME CONTROL! FRAME CONTROL!! FRAME CONTROL!!!
Post back on you're results, I can already smell that its going to go bad.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Thank you, this is so retarded.Taviii said:
How do you kiss her? You go in for the kiss
How do you put your arm around her shoulder? You put your arm around her shoulder.
Pretty self explanatory. Do it one time. If it fits the moment she won't think anything of it. Trust us.
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