"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
How To Put My Arm Around Her In The Movies?!?!
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
The more you worry, the more it'll screw you up. \
i speak from experience...i was worrying so much during the movie with this one chick that i was too scared to pull a move, and i wasn't calm and being fun. and that screwed the date up and she left me after that.
During the movie, if the moment feels right then put your arm around her, its not that hard. Don't think about it too much, just do it!
The longer you wait, the more nervous you get, the more your scared to do it.
Remember this: "Don't be scared, there is nothing to be scared of."
Good luck
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
if it's a scary movie, when shes scared put your arm around her and jokingly cheer her up.
thats all i can think of cuz i never go to the theater =P
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
The girl showed up a few minutes after the movie had started (we decided last minute to go, so I knew she'd be late). So she started asking questions about what she'd missed.
I put my arm around her and got in real close so I could whisper to her what was going on. Once I was done talking I just didn't move my arm, and she got comfortable.
viola!
Whisper sarcastic comments about the previews to her, and get more kino, touch her head and hair, confidently. You don't have to put your arm round her, it's not as important as getting lots of touching generally.
There's also the Mickey Rourke popcorn-surprise technique, but that's a little advanced.
Distant Light
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WTF your thinking about putting you're arm around her. First of all focus on seeing if she doesn't fuvking flake. Second of all worry about having fuvking fun.
Your trying to plan out a way to put you're arm around a fuvking girl. Reread the ways you've said, sounds like a fuvking movie or some lame ass kid trying to feel up on a girl. If you want to put you're arm around a girl then fuvking do it.
IF you FRAME is strong then you can get away with anything...
FRAME CONTROL! FRAME CONTROL!! FRAME CONTROL!!!
Post back on you're results, I can already smell that its going to go bad.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Thank you, this is so retarded.Taviii said:
How do you kiss her? You go in for the kiss
How do you put your arm around her shoulder? You put your arm around her shoulder.
Pretty self explanatory. Do it one time. If it fits the moment she won't think anything of it. Trust us.
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