"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
How To Put My Arm Around Her In The Movies?!?!
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
The more you worry, the more it'll screw you up. \
i speak from experience...i was worrying so much during the movie with this one chick that i was too scared to pull a move, and i wasn't calm and being fun. and that screwed the date up and she left me after that.
During the movie, if the moment feels right then put your arm around her, its not that hard. Don't think about it too much, just do it!
The longer you wait, the more nervous you get, the more your scared to do it.
Remember this: "Don't be scared, there is nothing to be scared of."
Good luck
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
if it's a scary movie, when shes scared put your arm around her and jokingly cheer her up.
thats all i can think of cuz i never go to the theater =P
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
The girl showed up a few minutes after the movie had started (we decided last minute to go, so I knew she'd be late). So she started asking questions about what she'd missed.
I put my arm around her and got in real close so I could whisper to her what was going on. Once I was done talking I just didn't move my arm, and she got comfortable.
viola!
Whisper sarcastic comments about the previews to her, and get more kino, touch her head and hair, confidently. You don't have to put your arm round her, it's not as important as getting lots of touching generally.
There's also the Mickey Rourke popcorn-surprise technique, but that's a little advanced.
Distant Light
Master Don Juan
WTF your thinking about putting you're arm around her. First of all focus on seeing if she doesn't fuvking flake. Second of all worry about having fuvking fun.
Your trying to plan out a way to put you're arm around a fuvking girl. Reread the ways you've said, sounds like a fuvking movie or some lame ass kid trying to feel up on a girl. If you want to put you're arm around a girl then fuvking do it.
IF you FRAME is strong then you can get away with anything...
FRAME CONTROL! FRAME CONTROL!! FRAME CONTROL!!!
Post back on you're results, I can already smell that its going to go bad.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Thank you, this is so retarded.Taviii said:
How do you kiss her? You go in for the kiss
How do you put your arm around her shoulder? You put your arm around her shoulder.
Pretty self explanatory. Do it one time. If it fits the moment she won't think anything of it. Trust us.
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