"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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If a woman is confused about being romantic with you but still calls and wants to hang out do you see that as no, low or mid interest?

Building up my plate section don't know if and when to kick her to the curb keno and light kissing so far 3rd date this weekend. Can't quite tell if she's a good one or keeping her options open.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Relegate her to minimal or no attention and you will find out all about her IL soon enough. If she's confused about you, then you're confused about whether you should be giving her your (supposedly) precious time = you get the **** outta there and start looking at other options + start doing things you enjoy in life if you're not doing that yet.
 
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women are driven by emotion. If she is not feeling romantic, then you next her. Don't waste resources on someone that's not going to be a part of your plan.
 
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greatsnake said:
women are driven by emotion. If she is not feeling romantic, then you next her. Don't waste resources on someone that's not going to be a part of your plan.
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Yep, if you want romantic feelings to develope... don't be in her face 24/7.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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wifehunter said:
Yep, if you want romantic feelings to develop... don't be in her face 24/7.
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Agreed... and don't be too accessible via social media: fb, twitter, ig, snapchat, whatsapp, skype, etc. etc.

OP, I would be suspicious that she's just fishing for attention when her IL is truly that low/mid, while hitting up her orbiters to evaluate her favorite pick. Drop the plate or demote her to bottom of the plate stack if her behavior continues. Lead, make plans and escalate.

Zero compliance = she gets off the plane. :rolleyes:
 
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