How to proceed

[shesabranchswinger]

If a woman is confused about being romantic with you but still calls and wants to hang out do you see that as no, low or mid interest?

Building up my plate section don't know if and when to kick her to the curb keno and light kissing so far 3rd date this weekend. Can't quite tell if she's a good one or keeping her options open.

 

[lizardking82]

Relegate her to minimal or no attention and you will find out all about her IL soon enough. If she's confused about you, then you're confused about whether you should be giving her your (supposedly) precious time = you get the **** outta there and start looking at other options + start doing things you enjoy in life if you're not doing that yet.

 

[wifehunter]

Lukewarm or mixed signals = go meet new plates

 

[greatsnake]

women are driven by emotion. If she is not feeling romantic, then you next her. Don't waste resources on someone that's not going to be a part of your plan.

 

[wifehunter]

women are driven by emotion. If she is not feeling romantic, then you next her. Don't waste resources on someone that's not going to be a part of your plan.

Yep, if you want romantic feelings to develope... don't be in her face 24/7.

 

[resilient]

Yep, if you want romantic feelings to develop... don't be in her face 24/7.

Agreed... and don't be too accessible via social media: fb, twitter, ig, snapchat, whatsapp, skype, etc. etc.

OP, I would be suspicious that she's just fishing for attention when her IL is truly that low/mid, while hitting up her orbiters to evaluate her favorite pick. Drop the plate or demote her to bottom of the plate stack if her behavior continues. Lead, make plans and escalate.

Zero compliance = she gets off the plane.