"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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If a woman is confused about being romantic with you but still calls and wants to hang out do you see that as no, low or mid interest?

Building up my plate section don't know if and when to kick her to the curb keno and light kissing so far 3rd date this weekend. Can't quite tell if she's a good one or keeping her options open.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Relegate her to minimal or no attention and you will find out all about her IL soon enough. If she's confused about you, then you're confused about whether you should be giving her your (supposedly) precious time = you get the **** outta there and start looking at other options + start doing things you enjoy in life if you're not doing that yet.
 
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women are driven by emotion. If she is not feeling romantic, then you next her. Don't waste resources on someone that's not going to be a part of your plan.
 
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greatsnake said:
women are driven by emotion. If she is not feeling romantic, then you next her. Don't waste resources on someone that's not going to be a part of your plan.
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Yep, if you want romantic feelings to develope... don't be in her face 24/7.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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wifehunter said:
Yep, if you want romantic feelings to develop... don't be in her face 24/7.
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Agreed... and don't be too accessible via social media: fb, twitter, ig, snapchat, whatsapp, skype, etc. etc.

OP, I would be suspicious that she's just fishing for attention when her IL is truly that low/mid, while hitting up her orbiters to evaluate her favorite pick. Drop the plate or demote her to bottom of the plate stack if her behavior continues. Lead, make plans and escalate.

Zero compliance = she gets off the plane. :rolleyes:
 
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