Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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If a woman is confused about being romantic with you but still calls and wants to hang out do you see that as no, low or mid interest?

Building up my plate section don't know if and when to kick her to the curb keno and light kissing so far 3rd date this weekend. Can't quite tell if she's a good one or keeping her options open.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Relegate her to minimal or no attention and you will find out all about her IL soon enough. If she's confused about you, then you're confused about whether you should be giving her your (supposedly) precious time = you get the **** outta there and start looking at other options + start doing things you enjoy in life if you're not doing that yet.
 
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women are driven by emotion. If she is not feeling romantic, then you next her. Don't waste resources on someone that's not going to be a part of your plan.
 
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greatsnake said:
women are driven by emotion. If she is not feeling romantic, then you next her. Don't waste resources on someone that's not going to be a part of your plan.
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Yep, if you want romantic feelings to develope... don't be in her face 24/7.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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wifehunter said:
Yep, if you want romantic feelings to develop... don't be in her face 24/7.
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Agreed... and don't be too accessible via social media: fb, twitter, ig, snapchat, whatsapp, skype, etc. etc.

OP, I would be suspicious that she's just fishing for attention when her IL is truly that low/mid, while hitting up her orbiters to evaluate her favorite pick. Drop the plate or demote her to bottom of the plate stack if her behavior continues. Lead, make plans and escalate.

Zero compliance = she gets off the plane. :rolleyes:
 
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