Kalel21
Don Juan
Does anyone have any tips on how to get a girl to go down on you. I managed to get a **** close and wanted oral sex but I didn't know how to ask? If anyone has any suggestions I would appreciate it.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Yeah only a matter of time.Originally posted by Tweek_1984
My girl says she wont do it, but she seems hesitant. I think it's only a matter of time.
Sooo just put up with it and consider yourself lucky if and when she does it eh?Originally posted by Tweek_1984
I havent a lcue how to persuade her though. Just have fun in the sack and if it happens, consider it a bonus.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
lol you poor clueless bastard.Originally posted by Tweek_1984
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Girls hate sucking ****. Sorry if this bursts your bubble.
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Oh I'm sorry mr 30 year-old pimp. Tell me how things should be done...Originally posted by ( . )( . )
lol you poor clueless bastard.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Originally posted by Leah
A man I was seeing used to incorporate giving head into his routine and tell me he has a present for me etc. If you drop hints we usually follow. Especially when you reward us for it, we're like pets really!
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.