"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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How to perform longer

SayWhat

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I feel I'm coming too fast, always stopping to be able to go further a minute later. This is quite annoying for her and me.

Any tips too be able to do it much longer?

Thanks
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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soden

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Fluoxetin/Prozac 10mg/day (or 70mg/week)

Really no joke, it's already evidence-based.
 

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soden said:
Fluoxetin/Prozac 10mg/day (or 70mg/week)

Really no joke, it's already evidence-based.
what??

take prozak so you don't cvm to fast? ridiculous.

Try working on kegel exercises and edging if you want to train yourself how to have better control over your orgasm.
 

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If missionary, alternate thrusting with high riding and very slow circular motion grinding with the base of the c-ck on the cl-t. Many women respond to this better than thrusts anyway (get her to masturbate in front of you to tell which) Switch positions and change tempo every couple of minutes also. 'Try to keep your core muscles relaxed early on rather than tensing up. Do kegels and other core exercises regularly.

If it's happening right when you go in, as in truly premature ejac, go in but don't start thrusting or moving much. Take that time to kiss her, grab her hand, look in her eyes, stroke her hair, anything other than starting to fast hump. Relax your whole body. When I had this problem young, it was solved by learning to relax and control breath and thoughts. Not starting the dirty talk or heavy pounding until after my c-ck had been in the vag awhile and "gotten used to its comfortable new home" helped too LOL.

Whatever you do, don't worry about it. If you blow one early, don't believe the movie thing where the girl pouts and acts like an ass, just start up the foreplay again and wait for the refractory period to end. One day down the road in all likelihood you will be wishing to come faster. Good luck.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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practice, jerk off before you expect to get laid, and yes, people are prescribed low dose anti-depressants for this if nothing else works.
 

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Intense cardio will help too... Like sprints or other HIIT. Your overall physical condition has a huge impact on your bedroom performance. Are you working out?

Edited to add: I don't think jerking off beforehand is a good idea. It will dull your senses and overall experience.
 

MtnMan

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MOTU said:
Edited to add: I don't think jerking off beforehand is a good idea. It will dull your senses and overall experience.
agreed, i prefer to go in it with a fully loaded gun. Physical fitness is key too for sure.
 

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MOTU said:
Intense cardio will help too... Like sprints or other HIIT. Your overall physical condition has a huge impact on your bedroom performance. Are you working out?

Edited to add: I don't think jerking off beforehand is a good idea. It will dull your senses and overall experience.
Best advice ever right here!


I can tell you, due to health issues my physical performance has gone down and the effects can be seen in bed.


Work out you'll be fine.
 

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testosterone...you need more of it
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Dgwizdal

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Count from 550 in your head down to 0 while f*cking almost saying it out load on the tip of your tongue.

Talk dirty to her

Also - get a few viagras and you WILL get over this.

Worked for me.
 

taiyuu_otoko

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Practice with porn. Seriously. Get some of your favorite porn, jack it until just before the moment of no return, then back off. Then jack it again till you get to that point, and then back off. If you do this once a day for 30-60 minutes, you'll soon be a hero in bed.
 

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When you're about to blow like Vesuvius, grab the base of your man snake and hold it firm. Not too tight. Sort of like squeezing a baker's piping bag as you write "Happy Birthday" on a cake.
 
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