"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How to perform longer

SayWhat

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I feel I'm coming too fast, always stopping to be able to go further a minute later. This is quite annoying for her and me.

Any tips too be able to do it much longer?

Thanks
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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soden

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Fluoxetin/Prozac 10mg/day (or 70mg/week)

Really no joke, it's already evidence-based.
 

MtnMan

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soden said:
Fluoxetin/Prozac 10mg/day (or 70mg/week)

Really no joke, it's already evidence-based.
what??

take prozak so you don't cvm to fast? ridiculous.

Try working on kegel exercises and edging if you want to train yourself how to have better control over your orgasm.
 

dasein

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If missionary, alternate thrusting with high riding and very slow circular motion grinding with the base of the c-ck on the cl-t. Many women respond to this better than thrusts anyway (get her to masturbate in front of you to tell which) Switch positions and change tempo every couple of minutes also. 'Try to keep your core muscles relaxed early on rather than tensing up. Do kegels and other core exercises regularly.

If it's happening right when you go in, as in truly premature ejac, go in but don't start thrusting or moving much. Take that time to kiss her, grab her hand, look in her eyes, stroke her hair, anything other than starting to fast hump. Relax your whole body. When I had this problem young, it was solved by learning to relax and control breath and thoughts. Not starting the dirty talk or heavy pounding until after my c-ck had been in the vag awhile and "gotten used to its comfortable new home" helped too LOL.

Whatever you do, don't worry about it. If you blow one early, don't believe the movie thing where the girl pouts and acts like an ass, just start up the foreplay again and wait for the refractory period to end. One day down the road in all likelihood you will be wishing to come faster. Good luck.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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JoshSway

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practice, jerk off before you expect to get laid, and yes, people are prescribed low dose anti-depressants for this if nothing else works.
 

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Intense cardio will help too... Like sprints or other HIIT. Your overall physical condition has a huge impact on your bedroom performance. Are you working out?

Edited to add: I don't think jerking off beforehand is a good idea. It will dull your senses and overall experience.
 

MtnMan

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MOTU said:
Edited to add: I don't think jerking off beforehand is a good idea. It will dull your senses and overall experience.
agreed, i prefer to go in it with a fully loaded gun. Physical fitness is key too for sure.
 

ace88

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MOTU said:
Intense cardio will help too... Like sprints or other HIIT. Your overall physical condition has a huge impact on your bedroom performance. Are you working out?

Edited to add: I don't think jerking off beforehand is a good idea. It will dull your senses and overall experience.
Best advice ever right here!


I can tell you, due to health issues my physical performance has gone down and the effects can be seen in bed.


Work out you'll be fine.
 

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testosterone...you need more of it
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Dgwizdal

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Count from 550 in your head down to 0 while f*cking almost saying it out load on the tip of your tongue.

Talk dirty to her

Also - get a few viagras and you WILL get over this.

Worked for me.
 

taiyuu_otoko

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Practice with porn. Seriously. Get some of your favorite porn, jack it until just before the moment of no return, then back off. Then jack it again till you get to that point, and then back off. If you do this once a day for 30-60 minutes, you'll soon be a hero in bed.
 

VladPatton

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When you're about to blow like Vesuvius, grab the base of your man snake and hold it firm. Not too tight. Sort of like squeezing a baker's piping bag as you write "Happy Birthday" on a cake.
 
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