"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How to perform longer

SayWhat

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I feel I'm coming too fast, always stopping to be able to go further a minute later. This is quite annoying for her and me.

Any tips too be able to do it much longer?

Thanks
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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soden

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Fluoxetin/Prozac 10mg/day (or 70mg/week)

Really no joke, it's already evidence-based.
 

MtnMan

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soden said:
Fluoxetin/Prozac 10mg/day (or 70mg/week)

Really no joke, it's already evidence-based.
what??

take prozak so you don't cvm to fast? ridiculous.

Try working on kegel exercises and edging if you want to train yourself how to have better control over your orgasm.
 

dasein

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If missionary, alternate thrusting with high riding and very slow circular motion grinding with the base of the c-ck on the cl-t. Many women respond to this better than thrusts anyway (get her to masturbate in front of you to tell which) Switch positions and change tempo every couple of minutes also. 'Try to keep your core muscles relaxed early on rather than tensing up. Do kegels and other core exercises regularly.

If it's happening right when you go in, as in truly premature ejac, go in but don't start thrusting or moving much. Take that time to kiss her, grab her hand, look in her eyes, stroke her hair, anything other than starting to fast hump. Relax your whole body. When I had this problem young, it was solved by learning to relax and control breath and thoughts. Not starting the dirty talk or heavy pounding until after my c-ck had been in the vag awhile and "gotten used to its comfortable new home" helped too LOL.

Whatever you do, don't worry about it. If you blow one early, don't believe the movie thing where the girl pouts and acts like an ass, just start up the foreplay again and wait for the refractory period to end. One day down the road in all likelihood you will be wishing to come faster. Good luck.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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JoshSway

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practice, jerk off before you expect to get laid, and yes, people are prescribed low dose anti-depressants for this if nothing else works.
 

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Intense cardio will help too... Like sprints or other HIIT. Your overall physical condition has a huge impact on your bedroom performance. Are you working out?

Edited to add: I don't think jerking off beforehand is a good idea. It will dull your senses and overall experience.
 

MtnMan

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MOTU said:
Edited to add: I don't think jerking off beforehand is a good idea. It will dull your senses and overall experience.
agreed, i prefer to go in it with a fully loaded gun. Physical fitness is key too for sure.
 

ace88

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MOTU said:
Intense cardio will help too... Like sprints or other HIIT. Your overall physical condition has a huge impact on your bedroom performance. Are you working out?

Edited to add: I don't think jerking off beforehand is a good idea. It will dull your senses and overall experience.
Best advice ever right here!


I can tell you, due to health issues my physical performance has gone down and the effects can be seen in bed.


Work out you'll be fine.
 

marmel75

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testosterone...you need more of it
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Dgwizdal

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Count from 550 in your head down to 0 while f*cking almost saying it out load on the tip of your tongue.

Talk dirty to her

Also - get a few viagras and you WILL get over this.

Worked for me.
 

taiyuu_otoko

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Practice with porn. Seriously. Get some of your favorite porn, jack it until just before the moment of no return, then back off. Then jack it again till you get to that point, and then back off. If you do this once a day for 30-60 minutes, you'll soon be a hero in bed.
 

VladPatton

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When you're about to blow like Vesuvius, grab the base of your man snake and hold it firm. Not too tight. Sort of like squeezing a baker's piping bag as you write "Happy Birthday" on a cake.
 
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