BackInTheGame78
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Wow, she definitely is a unicorn in that regard
How to not cheat?
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We_ArE_VeNOM
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And the beauty of the answer is; its simple.
No drawn out ass Dr. Phil answer needed.
If you still have an itch to fuk other women, then stay your ass single, and leave women who are looking for monogamy alone.
Plain and simple.
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Interesting. What was her reasoning for aproving of It?
Gamisch
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I believe men who actually DO wanna evolve might underestimate this topic.
Most female behaviours that work AGAINST you as a man will be better to understand once YOU are on the other side of the fence.
Let me explain; its easy to stay faithful when you have no options. And I don't mean " incel no options" but rather not how a HOT women has endless options from men who are willing to go all in to get her / take her away from someone . Im not talking " making an OLD profile and go through the trouble / approach 100 women get 3 numbers" options. I mean literally just existing and getting p00sy offers left and right.
To adress the bold part; if you approach a level where multiple women want you ( aka love bomb you simultaneously) you will get the real test...if a prime Megan fox flirts with you every day, it becomes a different ball game innit?
Lets look at cold female behavior; we all theorised that of a woman goes cold there might be another bull in the ring. But only after you've been love bombed by a new hb9, you will understand the exact dynamic behind divided attention( a new COW in the ring for us men) . It's a new shiny toy that swoops up all of your attention. Let alone if you would get new shiny toy approach you at least once every week like how hot women experience life..
Integrity been mentioned and yes I agree. But Integrity is also a feeling that might and often will change because the rest of the world doesn't necessarily have the same level of integrity. Arguably integrity in love is the same as naivety, the most important ingredient to make an LTR work.
All throughout history men have been cheating with younger hotter women given the opportunity.
TLDR; be( come) as bluepilled as possible and stick with it. Any drop of redpill mindset might push you towards believing that if she cheats on you one day, you unnecessarily missed out on great sexual experiences...
Not the nicest way to put it but hey...life aint fair..
Most female behaviours that work AGAINST you as a man will be better to understand once YOU are on the other side of the fence.
Let me explain; its easy to stay faithful when you have no options. And I don't mean " incel no options" but rather not how a HOT women has endless options from men who are willing to go all in to get her / take her away from someone . Im not talking " making an OLD profile and go through the trouble / approach 100 women get 3 numbers" options. I mean literally just existing and getting p00sy offers left and right.
To adress the bold part; if you approach a level where multiple women want you ( aka love bomb you simultaneously) you will get the real test...if a prime Megan fox flirts with you every day, it becomes a different ball game innit?
Lets look at cold female behavior; we all theorised that of a woman goes cold there might be another bull in the ring. But only after you've been love bombed by a new hb9, you will understand the exact dynamic behind divided attention( a new COW in the ring for us men) . It's a new shiny toy that swoops up all of your attention. Let alone if you would get new shiny toy approach you at least once every week like how hot women experience life..
Integrity been mentioned and yes I agree. But Integrity is also a feeling that might and often will change because the rest of the world doesn't necessarily have the same level of integrity. Arguably integrity in love is the same as naivety, the most important ingredient to make an LTR work.
All throughout history men have been cheating with younger hotter women given the opportunity.
TLDR; be( come) as bluepilled as possible and stick with it. Any drop of redpill mindset might push you towards believing that if she cheats on you one day, you unnecessarily missed out on great sexual experiences...
Not the nicest way to put it but hey...life aint fair..
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I used to love chasing women. Then I got married. Living with a woman has killed all desire for me to introduce additional chaos into my life. Women are black holes of time and money. Even if you could cheat, it’s simply not worth it.
No matter how hot the girl is and how frequent and amazing the bedroom action is, it’s just a matter of time until it becomes routine.
That’s when the temptation of something new and different will be hard to resist, especially if you have game.
There would be very few guys who would knock back the opportunity for a younger more attractive woman or have no regrets with rejecting the opportunity if she was willing and eager.
It’s a blessing or a curse depending on your point of view.
That’s when the temptation of something new and different will be hard to resist, especially if you have game.
There would be very few guys who would knock back the opportunity for a younger more attractive woman or have no regrets with rejecting the opportunity if she was willing and eager.
It’s a blessing or a curse depending on your point of view.
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And it also doesn't matter how much you love her (or vice versa).
Like death and taxes.
Sooner or later, the urge/temptation to cheat is gonna get to ya.
CornbreadFed
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Avoid situations that will allow you to cheat. I don’t go to venues full of single horny women anymore. Also, know what type of cheater you are. Do you like the short game or do you like the long game.
How do you go about this for a long term relation?
How do you go about this for a long term relation?
We_ArE_VeNOM
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Stay away from LTRs, if you are asking this question.
Do you mean by this that you just stay single?
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Stay single until you are ready to LOCK in with/to one woman.
Bingo-Player
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Surprised at the amount of self righteous comments here you can see how highly some regard themselves which is perhaps a separate topic but always amusing to read
Given the right opportunity at the right moment most guys are going to be sorely tempted and very likely to act upon it
Women too
Monogamy is just a social construct designed by churches and elites to keep an established order , now at some stages in there lives I agree some people DO enjoy playing happy families but on law of averages it just doesn't seem to really last
People get bored , people get complacent , people change yada yada
But you strip it all back to the core and the reality is men love chasing and fvcking fresh pu$$y and women love having the power to get men chasing them for it.
I think you can to some degree subdue this core dynamic if you decide to be in a relationship but again I'm not really sure anyone can keep up the charade forever without constantly lying to themselves.
you can see how highly some regard themselves which is perhaps a separate topic but always amusing to readGiven the right opportunity at the right moment most guys are going to be sorely tempted and very likely to act upon it
Women too
Monogamy is just a social construct designed by churches and elites to keep an established order , now at some stages in there lives I agree some people DO enjoy playing happy families but on law of averages it just doesn't seem to really last
People get bored , people get complacent , people change yada yada
But you strip it all back to the core and the reality is men love chasing and fvcking fresh pu$$y and women love having the power to get men chasing them for it.
I think you can to some degree subdue this core dynamic if you decide to be in a relationship but again I'm not really sure anyone can keep up the charade forever without constantly lying to themselves.