How to not cheat?

[BackInTheGame78]

I agree with what you are saying and I wouldn't believe most women that say they are ok with it. But she was the exception and was very confident and secure. After we split up and were dating others she would hang out with my friends and I at strip clubs. She was cool with it and friendly with dancers.

Wow, she definitely is a unicorn in that regard

 

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

this is the only for sure answer.

And the beauty of the answer is; its simple.

No drawn out ass Dr. Phil answer needed.

If you still have an itch to fuk other women, then stay your ass single, and leave women who are looking for monogamy alone.

Plain and simple.

 

[Doctor Europeo]

When I was married I did spend time in $trip clubs but my wife knew and approved of it.

Interesting. What was her reasoning for aproving of It?

 

[Gamisch]

I believe men who actually DO wanna evolve might underestimate this topic.

Most female behaviours that work AGAINST you as a man will be better to understand once YOU are on the other side of the fence.

Let me explain; its easy to stay faithful when you have no options. And I don't mean " incel no options" but rather not how a HOT women has endless options from men who are willing to go all in to get her / take her away from someone . Im not talking " making an OLD profile and go through the trouble / approach 100 women get 3 numbers" options. I mean literally just existing and getting p00sy offers left and right.

To adress the bold part; if you approach a level where multiple women want you ( aka love bomb you simultaneously) you will get the real test...if a prime Megan fox flirts with you every day, it becomes a different ball game innit?

Lets look at cold female behavior; we all theorised that of a woman goes cold there might be another bull in the ring. But only after you've been love bombed by a new hb9, you will understand the exact dynamic behind divided attention( a new COW in the ring for us men) . It's a new shiny toy that swoops up all of your attention. Let alone if you would get new shiny toy approach you at least once every week like how hot women experience life..

Integrity been mentioned and yes I agree. But Integrity is also a feeling that might and often will change because the rest of the world doesn't necessarily have the same level of integrity. Arguably integrity in love is the same as naivety, the most important ingredient to make an LTR work.

All throughout history men have been cheating with younger hotter women given the opportunity.

TLDR; be( come) as bluepilled as possible and stick with it. Any drop of redpill mindset might push you towards believing that if she cheats on you one day, you unnecessarily missed out on great sexual experiences...

Not the nicest way to put it but hey...life aint fair..

 

[EyeBRollin]

Other women keep existing.

How do you deal with it?

Do you know of any course on this subject?

I used to love chasing women. Then I got married. Living with a woman has killed all desire for me to introduce additional chaos into my life. Women are black holes of time and money. Even if you could cheat, it’s simply not worth it.

 

[DJ Novice]

No matter how hot the girl is and how frequent and amazing the bedroom action is, it’s just a matter of time until it becomes routine.

That’s when the temptation of something new and different will be hard to resist, especially if you have game.

There would be very few guys who would knock back the opportunity for a younger more attractive woman or have no regrets with rejecting the opportunity if she was willing and eager.

It’s a blessing or a curse depending on your point of view.

 

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

No matter how hot the girl is and how frequent and amazing the bedroom action is, it’s just a matter of time until it becomes routine.

And it also doesn't matter how much you love her (or vice versa).

Like death and taxes.

Sooner or later, the urge/temptation to cheat is gonna get to ya.

 

[CornbreadFed]

Avoid situations that will allow you to cheat. I don’t go to venues full of single horny women anymore. Also, know what type of cheater you are. Do you like the short game or do you like the long game.

 

[Joakim]

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The key to not cheating is simple; don't get involved in a monogamous relationship.

How bout that?

A single man cheating, is as illogical as an unmarried man getting a divorce.

It ain't trigonometry.

How do you go about this for a long term relation?

 

[Joakim]

Spin plates and don't commit.

Once a man "commits" to a women, she has no reason to care about him because she knows she has him. The whole point of a woman wanting commitment from a man is to have power over him and punish him financially and emotionally is he wants out.

Women are much more practical than men. They don't want commitment for love. Women want commitment because of the power it brings. That power over a man is intoxicating for a woman. It's a like a drug.

Spin plates and don't commit.

How do you go about this for a long term relation?

 

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

How do you go about this for a long term relation?

Stay away from LTRs, if you are asking this question.

 

[Joakim]

Stay away from LTRs, if you are asking this question.

Do you mean by this that you just stay single?

 

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

Do you mean by this that you just stay single?

Stay single until you are ready to LOCK in with/to one woman.

 

[Bingo-Player]

Surprised at the amount of self righteous comments here you can see how highly some regard themselves which is perhaps a separate topic but always amusing to read

Given the right opportunity at the right moment most guys are going to be sorely tempted and very likely to act upon it

Women too

Monogamy is just a social construct designed by churches and elites to keep an established order , now at some stages in there lives I agree some people DO enjoy playing happy families but on law of averages it just doesn't seem to really last

People get bored , people get complacent , people change yada yada

But you strip it all back to the core and the reality is men love chasing and fvcking fresh pu$$y and women love having the power to get men chasing them for it.

I think you can to some degree subdue this core dynamic if you decide to be in a relationship but again I'm not really sure anyone can keep up the charade forever without constantly lying to themselves.

 

[Prepostereax]

Irrespective of one's personal situation and moral compass

There's a study/poll on reddit about infidelity

The interesting part is that if a single person was to have a fling with a married person (knowing that they were married)

About half the respondents saw no problem with this,

ie they would happily fkc a married person, because they put the onus solely on the person who made vows

admittedly, the reddit crowd are hardly the cream of society, but reasonably representative of the sort of standards one might encounter in the wild

 

[zekko]

If you still have an itch to fuk other women, then stay your ass single, and leave women who are looking for monogamy alone.

Speaking for myself as a monogamous man, I don't think that itch ever goes away - not for me, anyway., not completely.
However, it's a matter of degree, and what your priorities are.

 

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

Speaking for myself as a monogamous man, I don't think that itch ever goes away - not for me, anyway., not completely.
However, it's a matter of degree, and what your priorities are.

Oh, trust me...I know.

I've lost 90% faith in monogamy, for that^ very reason.

The other 10% are the exceptions.

The itch; I don't care how strong you think you are...or how much you love your SO.

It is like death and taxes.

Sooner or later, it is going to get to ya.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Sometimes it takes brutal experience a few years ago I had a zoomer GF (i'm middle aged) and I went to a convention and got a little bit tipsy I meet some other young girl there we wound up doing some light kissing and such. the next day I felt guilty told my girlfriend and she proceeded to rant and rave at me on the phone for five hours. she finally forgave me and that pretty much cured me I've ever cheating.

Having a 19 year old rage for 5 hours will convince you not to cheat.

Let me add that abundance will reduce cheating. Sounds counterintuitive. But. If getting attention from women is a fairly common occurence, it becomes less an event than just a 'part of life."

 

[plumber]

Oh, trust me...I know.

I've lost 90% faith in monogamy, for that^ very reason.

The other 10% are the exceptions.

The itch; I don't care how strong you think you are...or how much you love your SO.

It is like death and taxes.

Sooner or later, it is going to get to ya.

it depends on the health of the man. low health may not affect like strong health. usually a hen pecked guy does not do it, fear of action. healthy strong men, its a problem for.

 

[zekko]

Let me add that abundance will reduce cheating. Sounds counterintuitive. But. If getting attention from women is a fairly common occurence, it becomes less an event than just a 'part of life."

Good point. I could see a desperate guy jumping on a rare chance if it comes around, because maybe he thinks "I'll never have this chance again, how often does a woman express interest in me?". That's the opposite of what the manosphere usually says - "A man is only as faithful as his options".


Like I said before though, I think it's a matter of priority. Your relationship has to be more important than the random sex. Which, when you think about it, it shouldn't really be close - if your relationship is good.