mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
If it's a quality person, those don't grow on trees. You won't know that by looking at her. It depends upon how she is.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
How to move up from a 5/6?
- Thread starter user252009
- Start date
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Romanemp22
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I'm referring to plates not ltr girls material.
DEEZEDBRAH
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Max looks. Boost aesthetics. Lift. Finances handled. Status.
death_wish. .
Banned
5 in looks so im guessing average to low average looking
probably good for a GF if you really like her she's not ugly , but not too hot either which should keep things a good balance, and should allow you to control frame or maintain a good respectable frame and allow her to ''look up to you''(hopefully, from the way i see it )
the search continues, i would still meet other chicks but i don't advocate cheating that's just me ( you can choose to do what you want to do ) diet, health (physical and mental) ,and self improvement should help you meet other women , haircuts and nice clothes are the most noticeable change that can take effect immediately,plus your physique. remember ppl look at you and reach some kinda conclusion in little time about who they think you are
probably good for a GF if you really like her she's not ugly , but not too hot either which should keep things a good balance, and should allow you to control frame or maintain a good respectable frame and allow her to ''look up to you''(hopefully, from the way i see it )
the search continues, i would still meet other chicks but i don't advocate cheating that's just me ( you can choose to do what you want to do ) diet, health (physical and mental) ,and self improvement should help you meet other women , haircuts and nice clothes are the most noticeable change that can take effect immediately,plus your physique. remember ppl look at you and reach some kinda conclusion in little time about who they think you are
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
bat soup
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Take her to Korea and give her a makeover.
BackInTheGame78
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OP, what are you looks wise?
If you are a 2 or a 3, then it is going to be really hard to go much higher.
If you are a 2 or a 3, then it is going to be really hard to go much higher.
user252009
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I'd say 7, still have some fat to lose and can build some muscle, getting back into the routine or more lifting now, my weakness is my sweet tooth
BackInTheGame78
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Hmm...maybe there is a disconnect between the grade you give yourself and the grade women give you?
His self rating of a 7 checks out.
Men usually date or plate girls 1 or 2 points lower in smv.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
The Duke
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Improve your social skills, improve your dating skills, improve your physique, improve your wardrobe, socialize more often.