"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How to master the way of the DJ?

No Bones

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It has been nearly a year since I discovered the underground materials of the seduction community and (yes) the difference in how I act and feel around women now in comparison since a year ago is mindblowing.

Now I want to take real action. While I have used what I've learned to varying degrees of success, it's really not enough. I want to develop a DJ attitude that I can be totally comfortable and congruent with. To get that, I obviously need more and more practice in-field.

So, how do you guys reckon I should improve my game, whether it be at home or in-field. Is there some kind of programme or checklist that I should stick to on a daily (or weekly) basis? Would be interested in hearing how people got the results they wanted.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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dice

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bump im like this guy
 

MackJr

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Are you good at sticking to programs?

I'm not, but what has helped is that I'll do a practice session at home, and then when I run errands I'll try to use what I've learned on the women I meet.

If you do have a lot of discipline, you're set.
 

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Well... I did the "Guide to Self Improvment" that's in our bible. I stuck to that, and the results show. It was a simple guide - possibly why I actually completed it.
 

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i recommend using anger and aggression as your basis of achieving ultimate and unnatural power that you want
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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No Bones

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Originally posted by darthsidious
i recommend using anger and aggression as your basis of achieving ultimate and unnatural power that you want
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So I get up in the morning, look at the mirror and scream?

Elaborate please.
 

No Bones

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Originally posted by Smooth Player 056
My friend, its time for you to do the DJ Boot Camp.
Thought this was specific to an actual "boot camp" or seminar or something (I'm new here). Needless to say, when I read your post, I gave the first section a read, and it's fantastic stuff.

Thought it would just be like another eBook with a few new ideas thrown in. Yet the information inside is something and the actual weekly exercises are just what I need.

I'll be sticking to this now, cheers.
 
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