"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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How to master the way of the DJ?

No Bones

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It has been nearly a year since I discovered the underground materials of the seduction community and (yes) the difference in how I act and feel around women now in comparison since a year ago is mindblowing.

Now I want to take real action. While I have used what I've learned to varying degrees of success, it's really not enough. I want to develop a DJ attitude that I can be totally comfortable and congruent with. To get that, I obviously need more and more practice in-field.

So, how do you guys reckon I should improve my game, whether it be at home or in-field. Is there some kind of programme or checklist that I should stick to on a daily (or weekly) basis? Would be interested in hearing how people got the results they wanted.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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dice

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bump im like this guy
 

MackJr

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Are you good at sticking to programs?

I'm not, but what has helped is that I'll do a practice session at home, and then when I run errands I'll try to use what I've learned on the women I meet.

If you do have a lot of discipline, you're set.
 

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Well... I did the "Guide to Self Improvment" that's in our bible. I stuck to that, and the results show. It was a simple guide - possibly why I actually completed it.
 

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i recommend using anger and aggression as your basis of achieving ultimate and unnatural power that you want
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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No Bones

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Originally posted by darthsidious
i recommend using anger and aggression as your basis of achieving ultimate and unnatural power that you want
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So I get up in the morning, look at the mirror and scream?

Elaborate please.
 

No Bones

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Originally posted by Smooth Player 056
My friend, its time for you to do the DJ Boot Camp.
Thought this was specific to an actual "boot camp" or seminar or something (I'm new here). Needless to say, when I read your post, I gave the first section a read, and it's fantastic stuff.

Thought it would just be like another eBook with a few new ideas thrown in. Yet the information inside is something and the actual weekly exercises are just what I need.

I'll be sticking to this now, cheers.
 
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