"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How to master the way of the DJ?

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It has been nearly a year since I discovered the underground materials of the seduction community and (yes) the difference in how I act and feel around women now in comparison since a year ago is mindblowing.

Now I want to take real action. While I have used what I've learned to varying degrees of success, it's really not enough. I want to develop a DJ attitude that I can be totally comfortable and congruent with. To get that, I obviously need more and more practice in-field.

So, how do you guys reckon I should improve my game, whether it be at home or in-field. Is there some kind of programme or checklist that I should stick to on a daily (or weekly) basis? Would be interested in hearing how people got the results they wanted.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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bump im like this guy
 
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Are you good at sticking to programs?

I'm not, but what has helped is that I'll do a practice session at home, and then when I run errands I'll try to use what I've learned on the women I meet.

If you do have a lot of discipline, you're set.
 
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Well... I did the "Guide to Self Improvment" that's in our bible. I stuck to that, and the results show. It was a simple guide - possibly why I actually completed it.
 
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i recommend using anger and aggression as your basis of achieving ultimate and unnatural power that you want
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by darthsidious
i recommend using anger and aggression as your basis of achieving ultimate and unnatural power that you want
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So I get up in the morning, look at the mirror and scream?

Elaborate please.
 
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Originally posted by Smooth Player 056
My friend, its time for you to do the DJ Boot Camp.
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Thought this was specific to an actual "boot camp" or seminar or something (I'm new here). Needless to say, when I read your post, I gave the first section a read, and it's fantastic stuff.

Thought it would just be like another eBook with a few new ideas thrown in. Yet the information inside is something and the actual weekly exercises are just what I need.

I'll be sticking to this now, cheers.
 
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