"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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How to master the way of the DJ?

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It has been nearly a year since I discovered the underground materials of the seduction community and (yes) the difference in how I act and feel around women now in comparison since a year ago is mindblowing.

Now I want to take real action. While I have used what I've learned to varying degrees of success, it's really not enough. I want to develop a DJ attitude that I can be totally comfortable and congruent with. To get that, I obviously need more and more practice in-field.

So, how do you guys reckon I should improve my game, whether it be at home or in-field. Is there some kind of programme or checklist that I should stick to on a daily (or weekly) basis? Would be interested in hearing how people got the results they wanted.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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dice

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bump im like this guy
 

MackJr

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Are you good at sticking to programs?

I'm not, but what has helped is that I'll do a practice session at home, and then when I run errands I'll try to use what I've learned on the women I meet.

If you do have a lot of discipline, you're set.
 

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Well... I did the "Guide to Self Improvment" that's in our bible. I stuck to that, and the results show. It was a simple guide - possibly why I actually completed it.
 

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i recommend using anger and aggression as your basis of achieving ultimate and unnatural power that you want
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Originally posted by darthsidious
i recommend using anger and aggression as your basis of achieving ultimate and unnatural power that you want
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So I get up in the morning, look at the mirror and scream?

Elaborate please.
 

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Originally posted by Smooth Player 056
My friend, its time for you to do the DJ Boot Camp.
Thought this was specific to an actual "boot camp" or seminar or something (I'm new here). Needless to say, when I read your post, I gave the first section a read, and it's fantastic stuff.

Thought it would just be like another eBook with a few new ideas thrown in. Yet the information inside is something and the actual weekly exercises are just what I need.

I'll be sticking to this now, cheers.
 
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