"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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how to make people laughing

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well im not so good to make people laughting, or make them laugh.. sometimes i get somone to laugh but i feel that im not, i say to myself "hm what did i do wrong this time?/what the f#&k was so funny with that?" i want to be a funny guy, i dont just want to be a romance guy, but a funny guy to.. when im on date or with somebody i cant make them laught im feeling that im to seriously guy,


soo do some of you guys have some tips/advice.. how to be funny and make people laught?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Watch some stand-up comdey, and be observant of what is hapening around you. A lot of things can be funny if you notice them.
 

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Eddie Murphy's very first recording from 1982 is the best stand-up I've ever heard. I have not found it p2p; it's kind of rare. Some of the tracks are "talking cars, Effrom Robinson, shot the pope, drinking fathers..."

You might also try http://www.nobodylikesme.com/default.asp
or start attending comedy clubs. Don't sit in the front row unless you want to get picked on by the comedians.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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