"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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how to make people laughing

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well im not so good to make people laughting, or make them laugh.. sometimes i get somone to laugh but i feel that im not, i say to myself "hm what did i do wrong this time?/what the f#&k was so funny with that?" i want to be a funny guy, i dont just want to be a romance guy, but a funny guy to.. when im on date or with somebody i cant make them laught im feeling that im to seriously guy,


soo do some of you guys have some tips/advice.. how to be funny and make people laught?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Watch some stand-up comdey, and be observant of what is hapening around you. A lot of things can be funny if you notice them.
 

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Eddie Murphy's very first recording from 1982 is the best stand-up I've ever heard. I have not found it p2p; it's kind of rare. Some of the tracks are "talking cars, Effrom Robinson, shot the pope, drinking fathers..."

You might also try http://www.nobodylikesme.com/default.asp
or start attending comedy clubs. Don't sit in the front row unless you want to get picked on by the comedians.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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