You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
There a girl i'm SOOO attracted too. Like i can't take it anymore. She's goodlooking, but for some reason i think shes hotter then any celebrity (i know it isnt true, but im like infatuated with this girls looks). I need to make her seem less attrative to me..is their a way to do this? any tips?
It's b/c shes a good friend and i really DONT want to see her that way. Dam (shes prob really a HB 8.5-9 but i see her as a HB10 or better)
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Originally posted by shark There a girl i'm SOOO attracted too. Like i can't take it anymore. She's goodlooking, but for some reason i think shes hotter then any celebrity (i know it isnt true, but im like infatuated with this girls looks). I need to make her seem less attrative to me..is their a way to do this? any tips?
It's b/c shes a good friend and i really DONT want to see her that way. Dam (shes prob really a HB 8.5-9 but i see her as a HB10 or better)
i have onetis for her, yes..and its ALL b/c of her looks not persoanlity or connections or whatever. Thats all..i want to get rid of it b/c it shouldnt have such an effect on me but it does
What's the difference between an ugly girl's sh!t and a hot girl's sh!t. NONE. They smell horrible. Think of them like that, when you think of that hot girl, think of her covered with loads of crap all over her face like some sick japanese or german ******* porn with piss all over it. The Ho's worthiness is worthless!
Man I gotta stop watching those sick internet videos.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
First I imagine all the innocent lies she might tell guys that mess up heads and cause confusion.
Then I imagine taking her asside and piissing in her face. And her liking it. Thinking about piissing in a girls face and really visualizing it helps me deal with a girl's hot/wonderful/sentfromheavenness very well. Then I tease her, alot. But only in ways that won't hurt her feelings.
Bad advice. Will reinforce friend as an object of sexual lust.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
He does bring up a good point, some times in order to bring out a better game and not get stuck stuttering when I'm talking to a beauty I try to think of her doing mundane things and this usually makes me keep my frame on top and the "can walk away anytime" attitude.
Originally posted by dannyc Just imagine her taking a long hard ass ****. Face all red and sweaty and then as she finishes, imagine the last poop making a big fart noise.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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