She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Thank you! Glad someone said it.guru1000 said:And yet you have no humility with these numbers??
Sir come on now, you know I have never stated that I was a "Guru" at anything, be it finance, women, working out, etc. So why would you just flat out lie sir?BeTheChange said:...By many people's perceptions OP is not successful at all and yet he champions himself as the board's financial guru.
Really? If it were my goal to be a millionaire and it took me that long to get there, I would have to look back at my life and say that I had a lot of setbacks and failures, but I would be happy that I persisted, never gave up, and finally reached my goal. It's all in your perspective.BeTheChange said:If it took me to 40, 45 or 50 - can't remember exactly when OP expects to hit the mil target - to be a millionaire I would view my life as an abject failure.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Guru’s PM Response to TenacitySo I've requested that based on our differences, we just stop talking/discussing and go our separate ways. But like a damn female, you literally won't stop the bickering.
So I'm PMing you directly, if you want to have a telephone conversation to sort this out, I can do that this afternoon. What is the best line to reach you?
But I'm not going back and forth with you anymore on a Discussion Board. Either you are trolling, high on something, flaming, or flat out ignorant.
Also, if you copy and paste this message BACK into the Forum, I will use this message as proof to the Moderators on this Board that I tried to resolve our issues privately through PM and you STILL bought it back into the Forum.
The rules of the Forum is that when two people are having issues (like we supposedly have) then they sort it out in private. So that's what I'm attempting to do.
And now this post above? LOL.No need to speak about this. You stay out of my threads and I stay out of yours. Don't make any inferences to me and contrariwise.
When did you send thisNo need to speak about this. You stay out of my threads and I stay out of yours. Don't make any inferences to me and contrariwise.
Dude, what part of I'm DONE discussing/debating shyt with you on a Discussion Board don't you understand? We can talk through PM.guru1000 said:And now this post above? LOL.
Ok, let’s get back to the convo:
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.