How to LOWER her interest?

[djthiago1]

My girl gets too clingy, hungry for affection and just outright annoying when she likes me too much, i'm looking to turn it down juuust a bit. Tips?

 

[Who Dares Win]

call her 10 times a day

 

[claudolfgeorgini]

call her 10 times a day

Yeah basically just do the same thing she's doing. I do wish that I had a girl that was this into me.

 

[Desdinova]

Just tell her you're busy or need some time to do your own stuff. I have to do that with mine. Sometimes I have to remind her she can do certain things without me in tow.

It's better to have them a bit clingy instead of distant.

 

[RangerMIke]

call her 10 times a day

Yep... jut start chasing her and she will back off. I know it's counter intuitive, but it works.

 

[RangerMIke]

Just tell her you're busy or need some time to do your own stuff. I have to do that with mine. Sometimes I have to remind her she can do certain things without me in tow.

It's better to have them a bit clingy instead of distant.

While chasing her works to drive her off. @Desdinova is the right way to handle it. If you want to keep her around, just tell her you're busy and tell her to come over to your place later. Make a date and promise you will see her later and go about your business.

 

[resilient]

There's always the mundane texts like "Hi" "Hey" "How's your day going?" "Whatcha up to?" or texting, social media post her boring links that will drive her interest level down. Basically being too available is a fast way to scale back the IL.

 

[Von]

Never thought to see this kind of post on SS.

However its 100% needed.. many times girl are so into you without having done anything (even à date) that's its scary

1. Chasing her
2. None stop calling her
3. Sending countless mêmes of bad joke
4. Comparing her to an animal
5. Burp alot (be indécent in the physical time)

However, you wanna be private about it... cause she might start bad mouth you (thus injure your réputation in certains fields)

If you do everything to chase her away but she clings... submit her to a restriction order with a GPS bracelet to her wrips

 

[Urbanyst]

Act desperate.

 

[Masculinity]

My girl gets too clingy, hungry for affection and just outright annoying when she likes me too much, i'm looking to turn it down juuust a bit. Tips?

Ask for threesums, get clingy, become an AFC, ask for approval of everything.

OR you can just go ghost completely (recommended).

 

[djthiago1]

Just tell her you're busy or need some time to do your own stuff. I have to do that with mine. Sometimes I have to remind her she can do certain things without me in tow.

It's better to have them a bit clingy instead of distant.

This does not work. She starts thinking that i wanna be distant on purpose. I think i'll just overdo compliments and text her more, tell her i miss her, can't stop thinking about her, that kind of crap.

 

[Glassguy]

Send her this:

1:10pm: Hey!
1:11pm: Are you there?
1:12 pm: You must be busy
1:13pm: I will text you later
1:20 pm: Its later
1:22 pm: Are you mad at me?
1:25 pm: Are you ok?
1:29 pm: I hope nothing bad happened to you.
1:32 pm: Please call me right now to let me know you are safe

Chances are your last few messages will show up as "Undelivered" and you'll never hear from her again.

Whammy.....problem solved!

 

[djthiago1]

Send her this:

1:10pm: Hey!
1:11pm: Are you there?
1:12 pm: You must be busy
1:13pm: I will text you later
1:20 pm: Its later
1:22 pm: Are you mad at me?
1:25 pm: Are you ok?
1:29 pm: I hope nothing bad happened to you.
1:32 pm: Please call me right now to let me know you are safe

Chances are your last few messages will show up as "Undelivered" and you'll never hear from her again.

Whammy.....problem solved!

 

[dustmuffin]

Declare your undying love for her. That she is your soul mate and would do anything for her.

 

[Glassguy]

Sadly, I'm sure there are guys who do this. I'm quite certain some of them post here lol

 

[resilient]

Sadly, I'm sure there are guys who do this. I'm quite certain some of them post here lol

::When your phone says bae read your messages with the "read" receipt in gray, yet no response after the first 10 inquiries::

 

[Trump]

My girl gets too clingy, hungry for affection and just outright annoying when she likes me too much, i'm looking to turn it down juuust a bit. Tips?

Really bro? After all the threads you have read on SS with men complaining women won't give them the time of day, won't give them dates, won't give them affection, won't give them kisses, won't give them sex. You are telling us that she is giving us all that and you don't want it anymore?

Man, sorry to say but she must not be young or good looking.

 

[icantgetlaid]

You are the man. If you don't want the girls affection/interest/etc. just stop accepting outings with her and date other women. She'll get the point real fast.

 

[wifehunter]

you need a man cave to retreat to, that and time to miss her.

 

[djthiago1]

UPDATE
Broke up with her due to too many fights and name calling.