"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
How to LOWER her interest?
- Thread starter djthiago1
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Who Dares Win
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Yeah basically just do the same thing she's doing. I do wish that I had a girl that was this into me.
Desdinova
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It's better to have them a bit clingy instead of distant.
RangerMIke
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Yep... jut start chasing her and she will back off. I know it's counter intuitive, but it works.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
RangerMIke
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While chasing her works to drive her off. @Desdinova is the right way to handle it. If you want to keep her around, just tell her you're busy and tell her to come over to your place later. Make a date and promise you will see her later and go about your business.
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However its 100% needed.. many times girl are so into you without having done anything (even à date) that's its scary
1. Chasing her
2. None stop calling her
3. Sending countless mêmes of bad joke
4. Comparing her to an animal
5. Burp alot (be indécent in the physical time)
However, you wanna be private about it... cause she might start bad mouth you (thus injure your réputation in certains fields)
If you do everything to chase her away but she clings... submit her to a restriction order with a GPS bracelet to her wrips
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Ask for threesums, get clingy, become an AFC, ask for approval of everything.
OR you can just go ghost completely (recommended).
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
djthiago1
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This does not work. She starts thinking that i wanna be distant on purpose. I think i'll just overdo compliments and text her more, tell her i miss her, can't stop thinking about her, that kind of crap.
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1:10pm: Hey!
1:11pm: Are you there?
1:12 pm: You must be busy
1:13pm: I will text you later
1:20 pm: Its later
1:22 pm: Are you mad at me?
1:25 pm: Are you ok?
1:29 pm: I hope nothing bad happened to you.
1:32 pm: Please call me right now to let me know you are safe
Chances are your last few messages will show up as "Undelivered" and you'll never hear from her again.
Whammy.....problem solved!
djthiago1
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Send her this:
1:10pm: Hey!
1:11pm: Are you there?
1:12 pm: You must be busy
1:13pm: I will text you later
1:20 pm: Its later
1:22 pm: Are you mad at me?
1:25 pm: Are you ok?
1:29 pm: I hope nothing bad happened to you.
1:32 pm: Please call me right now to let me know you are safe
Chances are your last few messages will show up as "Undelivered" and you'll never hear from her again.
Whammy.....problem solved!
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Sadly, I'm sure there are guys who do this. I'm quite certain some of them post here lol
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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::When your phone says bae read your messages with the "read" receipt in gray, yet no response after the first 10 inquiries::
Really bro? After all the threads you have read on SS with men complaining women won't give them the time of day, won't give them dates, won't give them affection, won't give them kisses, won't give them sex. You are telling us that she is giving us all that and you don't want it anymore?
Man, sorry to say but she must not be young or good looking.
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wifehunter
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.