"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How to look rich on OLD?

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When I was banned, I think it was @sosousage e that said I should try to look rich on OLD.

How to do that? I'm probably about to buy a BMW i8 in 3 weeks. I think that will help me in general.

I admit that many bad things could happen by leading with money, but I don't know what else to lead with at this point.
 

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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Use Dale Carnegie's logic. Get them to think it was their idea.

Don't show riches or say you are rich, imply that you are rich.

Let the ladies read our profile and come to the conclusion that you've got a lot of money.

Talk about having "rich" hobbies (like traveling or collecting fine art).

Say you're busy because you are starting your third or fourth business.

Talk about how you're getting your pilots license or something.
 

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Suit. Car. Watch.

You’re officially not a bum.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Agreed. You take a pic in or with that car and look like a nerd, women will still not swipe to bang, maybe some low level specimens will, I’m sure you can bang a hb6 off the car alone.

You go out in that car and have a cool persona you will bag some hb7 and 8 but you need to own the car and not let it own you.
 

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Don't be a cheap@$$, get a Tesla Model X (way faster), ferrari, or lambo

Holy crap, you have over 3,000 posts in 9 months?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Don't be a cheap@$$, get a Tesla Model X (way faster), ferrari, or lambo

Holy crap, you have over 3,000 posts in 9 months?
I don't want a Tesla. The only Lambo I could afford is a Gallardo, which I think are ugly, or a very old Murcielago.

I think those types of cars are just screaming for attention, but I definitely considered it.
 

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Nah the i8 is a great shout, lovely car

BMW are solid, saved my life when I had a crash few year ago the police said only the sturdiness saved the whole thing caving in on me. BMW or Mercedes for me all the way. You only see me in a German whip.
 
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Nah the i8 is a great shout, lovely car

BMW are solid, saved my life when I had a crash few year ago the police said only the sturdiness saved the whole thing caving in on me. BMW or Mercedes for me all the way. You only see me in a German whip.
I'm financing it with $80k of home equity, financed over 30 years. The first 10 years are interest-only. 2.49%.

It will only cost $166/month. The insurance will probably cost more than that.

And this bank allows you to "renew" the loan every year, so the interest only period will never run out. And at some point over the next 30 years, I'll just pay it off once I started flipping properties better.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Did you ever see that episode of friends where joey picks up girls by pretending to own a porsche? (he just lets them see him waxing a random Porsche he sees on the street)

Take a selfie with the nicest cars you see on the street (if the owners aren't around)
 
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Did you ever see that episode of friends where joey picks up girls by pretending to own a porsche? (he just lets them see him waxing a random Porsche he sees on the street)

Take a selfie with the nicest cars you see on the street (if the owners aren't around)
But I will actually own one. No need to pretend.
 

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Did you ever see that episode of friends where joey picks up girls by pretending to own a porsche? (he just lets them see him waxing a random Porsche he sees on the street)
Did you see the ep where they spy on ugly fat naked guy and find out where he lives? I have on dvd if you wanna borrow x
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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