"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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How to look rich on OLD?

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When I was banned, I think it was @sosousage e that said I should try to look rich on OLD.

How to do that? I'm probably about to buy a BMW i8 in 3 weeks. I think that will help me in general.

I admit that many bad things could happen by leading with money, but I don't know what else to lead with at this point.
 

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Use Dale Carnegie's logic. Get them to think it was their idea.

Don't show riches or say you are rich, imply that you are rich.

Let the ladies read our profile and come to the conclusion that you've got a lot of money.

Talk about having "rich" hobbies (like traveling or collecting fine art).

Say you're busy because you are starting your third or fourth business.

Talk about how you're getting your pilots license or something.
 

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Suit. Car. Watch.

You’re officially not a bum.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Agreed. You take a pic in or with that car and look like a nerd, women will still not swipe to bang, maybe some low level specimens will, I’m sure you can bang a hb6 off the car alone.

You go out in that car and have a cool persona you will bag some hb7 and 8 but you need to own the car and not let it own you.
 

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Don't be a cheap@$$, get a Tesla Model X (way faster), ferrari, or lambo

Holy crap, you have over 3,000 posts in 9 months?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Don't be a cheap@$$, get a Tesla Model X (way faster), ferrari, or lambo

Holy crap, you have over 3,000 posts in 9 months?
I don't want a Tesla. The only Lambo I could afford is a Gallardo, which I think are ugly, or a very old Murcielago.

I think those types of cars are just screaming for attention, but I definitely considered it.
 

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Nah the i8 is a great shout, lovely car

BMW are solid, saved my life when I had a crash few year ago the police said only the sturdiness saved the whole thing caving in on me. BMW or Mercedes for me all the way. You only see me in a German whip.
 
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Nah the i8 is a great shout, lovely car

BMW are solid, saved my life when I had a crash few year ago the police said only the sturdiness saved the whole thing caving in on me. BMW or Mercedes for me all the way. You only see me in a German whip.
I'm financing it with $80k of home equity, financed over 30 years. The first 10 years are interest-only. 2.49%.

It will only cost $166/month. The insurance will probably cost more than that.

And this bank allows you to "renew" the loan every year, so the interest only period will never run out. And at some point over the next 30 years, I'll just pay it off once I started flipping properties better.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Did you ever see that episode of friends where joey picks up girls by pretending to own a porsche? (he just lets them see him waxing a random Porsche he sees on the street)

Take a selfie with the nicest cars you see on the street (if the owners aren't around)
 
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Did you ever see that episode of friends where joey picks up girls by pretending to own a porsche? (he just lets them see him waxing a random Porsche he sees on the street)

Take a selfie with the nicest cars you see on the street (if the owners aren't around)
But I will actually own one. No need to pretend.
 

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Did you ever see that episode of friends where joey picks up girls by pretending to own a porsche? (he just lets them see him waxing a random Porsche he sees on the street)
Did you see the ep where they spy on ugly fat naked guy and find out where he lives? I have on dvd if you wanna borrow x
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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