"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How to look rich on OLD?

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When I was banned, I think it was @sosousage e that said I should try to look rich on OLD.

How to do that? I'm probably about to buy a BMW i8 in 3 weeks. I think that will help me in general.

I admit that many bad things could happen by leading with money, but I don't know what else to lead with at this point.
 

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Use Dale Carnegie's logic. Get them to think it was their idea.

Don't show riches or say you are rich, imply that you are rich.

Let the ladies read our profile and come to the conclusion that you've got a lot of money.

Talk about having "rich" hobbies (like traveling or collecting fine art).

Say you're busy because you are starting your third or fourth business.

Talk about how you're getting your pilots license or something.
 
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Suit. Car. Watch.

You’re officially not a bum.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Agreed. You take a pic in or with that car and look like a nerd, women will still not swipe to bang, maybe some low level specimens will, I’m sure you can bang a hb6 off the car alone.

You go out in that car and have a cool persona you will bag some hb7 and 8 but you need to own the car and not let it own you.
 
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Don't be a cheap@$$, get a Tesla Model X (way faster), ferrari, or lambo

Holy crap, you have over 3,000 posts in 9 months?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Roober said:
Don't be a cheap@$$, get a Tesla Model X (way faster), ferrari, or lambo

Holy crap, you have over 3,000 posts in 9 months?
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I don't want a Tesla. The only Lambo I could afford is a Gallardo, which I think are ugly, or a very old Murcielago.

I think those types of cars are just screaming for attention, but I definitely considered it.
 
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Nah the i8 is a great shout, lovely car

BMW are solid, saved my life when I had a crash few year ago the police said only the sturdiness saved the whole thing caving in on me. BMW or Mercedes for me all the way. You only see me in a German whip.
 
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Murkserious said:
Nah the i8 is a great shout, lovely car

BMW are solid, saved my life when I had a crash few year ago the police said only the sturdiness saved the whole thing caving in on me. BMW or Mercedes for me all the way. You only see me in a German whip.
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I'm financing it with $80k of home equity, financed over 30 years. The first 10 years are interest-only. 2.49%.

It will only cost $166/month. The insurance will probably cost more than that.

And this bank allows you to "renew" the loan every year, so the interest only period will never run out. And at some point over the next 30 years, I'll just pay it off once I started flipping properties better.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Did you ever see that episode of friends where joey picks up girls by pretending to own a porsche? (he just lets them see him waxing a random Porsche he sees on the street)

Take a selfie with the nicest cars you see on the street (if the owners aren't around)
 
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devilkingx2 said:
Did you ever see that episode of friends where joey picks up girls by pretending to own a porsche? (he just lets them see him waxing a random Porsche he sees on the street)

Take a selfie with the nicest cars you see on the street (if the owners aren't around)
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But I will actually own one. No need to pretend.
 
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devilkingx2 said:
Did you ever see that episode of friends where joey picks up girls by pretending to own a porsche? (he just lets them see him waxing a random Porsche he sees on the street)
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Did you see the ep where they spy on ugly fat naked guy and find out where he lives? I have on dvd if you wanna borrow x
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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