"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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How to know what type of women you should go after?

razkay

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I don't know if I should only approach HB6's because I'm not that attractive to women. I think that I'm attractive...I'd say 7/10. I have all the basics down like staying clean, wearing nice clothes, etc. But I tend to see couple who look alike. They're both geeky, athletic, professional, etc. I don't know what category I'm in.

How can I find myself so I can market myself to the women who will be the most responsive?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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omega05

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why dont you go after the women you like as oppose to just looking for women who you think you should be going after?
 

RandallP

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I see ugly dudes with hot chicks all the time. Don't worry bout what you look like. Looks only get you so far.
 

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You are clearly not confident in yourself.

Why not approach and date all types of women. Opposites attract you know.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Go for girls who arent Ho's!!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Deniska

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You not in any specific category, so dont label your self. So date who you want to date, geeks, athletes, professionals, etc. What ever floats your boat.

And you cant find your self. You already here, the saying "finding my self" is misused, unless you are mentally insane and have lost your mind. But what you need to do, is become the person you want to be for the rest of your life.

Right now you dont know who you are, and thats ok, it takes many years for many people to figure out who they are. So your first step is to figure out who you are or who you want to be as a person, and once you do, grow as that person.
 

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Whatever you do, don't go after the redheads, save them for me ;)

Go hit on what you like. Omega said it best.
 

Kal0051

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go for women you find attractive. If they don't find you attractive then whatever, find more women. Just think of it as their loss.
 

razkay

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That's what I've been doing, going after women I find attractive. But still haven't had a relationship longer than a couple weeks. I'm sure once I get into a relationship, I'll wish that I didn't. LOL The grass is always greener on the other side.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Kal0051

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razkay said:
That's what I've been doing, going after women I find attractive. But still haven't had a relationship longer than a couple weeks. I'm sure once I get into a relationship, I'll wish that I didn't. LOL The grass is always greener on the other side.
well, maybe there's a reason you haven't had a relationship longer than a couple weeks. But no one on the internet can tell you why that is, at least without more info.
 
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