Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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How to know what type of women you should go after?

razkay

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I don't know if I should only approach HB6's because I'm not that attractive to women. I think that I'm attractive...I'd say 7/10. I have all the basics down like staying clean, wearing nice clothes, etc. But I tend to see couple who look alike. They're both geeky, athletic, professional, etc. I don't know what category I'm in.

How can I find myself so I can market myself to the women who will be the most responsive?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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omega05

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why dont you go after the women you like as oppose to just looking for women who you think you should be going after?
 

RandallP

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I see ugly dudes with hot chicks all the time. Don't worry bout what you look like. Looks only get you so far.
 

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You are clearly not confident in yourself.

Why not approach and date all types of women. Opposites attract you know.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Go for girls who arent Ho's!!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Deniska

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You not in any specific category, so dont label your self. So date who you want to date, geeks, athletes, professionals, etc. What ever floats your boat.

And you cant find your self. You already here, the saying "finding my self" is misused, unless you are mentally insane and have lost your mind. But what you need to do, is become the person you want to be for the rest of your life.

Right now you dont know who you are, and thats ok, it takes many years for many people to figure out who they are. So your first step is to figure out who you are or who you want to be as a person, and once you do, grow as that person.
 

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Whatever you do, don't go after the redheads, save them for me ;)

Go hit on what you like. Omega said it best.
 

Kal0051

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go for women you find attractive. If they don't find you attractive then whatever, find more women. Just think of it as their loss.
 

razkay

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That's what I've been doing, going after women I find attractive. But still haven't had a relationship longer than a couple weeks. I'm sure once I get into a relationship, I'll wish that I didn't. LOL The grass is always greener on the other side.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Kal0051

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razkay said:
That's what I've been doing, going after women I find attractive. But still haven't had a relationship longer than a couple weeks. I'm sure once I get into a relationship, I'll wish that I didn't. LOL The grass is always greener on the other side.
well, maybe there's a reason you haven't had a relationship longer than a couple weeks. But no one on the internet can tell you why that is, at least without more info.
 
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