"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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How to know what type of women you should go after?

razkay

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I don't know if I should only approach HB6's because I'm not that attractive to women. I think that I'm attractive...I'd say 7/10. I have all the basics down like staying clean, wearing nice clothes, etc. But I tend to see couple who look alike. They're both geeky, athletic, professional, etc. I don't know what category I'm in.

How can I find myself so I can market myself to the women who will be the most responsive?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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omega05

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why dont you go after the women you like as oppose to just looking for women who you think you should be going after?
 

RandallP

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I see ugly dudes with hot chicks all the time. Don't worry bout what you look like. Looks only get you so far.
 

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You are clearly not confident in yourself.

Why not approach and date all types of women. Opposites attract you know.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Go for girls who arent Ho's!!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Deniska

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You not in any specific category, so dont label your self. So date who you want to date, geeks, athletes, professionals, etc. What ever floats your boat.

And you cant find your self. You already here, the saying "finding my self" is misused, unless you are mentally insane and have lost your mind. But what you need to do, is become the person you want to be for the rest of your life.

Right now you dont know who you are, and thats ok, it takes many years for many people to figure out who they are. So your first step is to figure out who you are or who you want to be as a person, and once you do, grow as that person.
 

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Whatever you do, don't go after the redheads, save them for me ;)

Go hit on what you like. Omega said it best.
 

Kal0051

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go for women you find attractive. If they don't find you attractive then whatever, find more women. Just think of it as their loss.
 

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That's what I've been doing, going after women I find attractive. But still haven't had a relationship longer than a couple weeks. I'm sure once I get into a relationship, I'll wish that I didn't. LOL The grass is always greener on the other side.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Kal0051

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razkay said:
That's what I've been doing, going after women I find attractive. But still haven't had a relationship longer than a couple weeks. I'm sure once I get into a relationship, I'll wish that I didn't. LOL The grass is always greener on the other side.
well, maybe there's a reason you haven't had a relationship longer than a couple weeks. But no one on the internet can tell you why that is, at least without more info.
 
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