"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How to know what type of women you should go after?

razkay

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I don't know if I should only approach HB6's because I'm not that attractive to women. I think that I'm attractive...I'd say 7/10. I have all the basics down like staying clean, wearing nice clothes, etc. But I tend to see couple who look alike. They're both geeky, athletic, professional, etc. I don't know what category I'm in.

How can I find myself so I can market myself to the women who will be the most responsive?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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omega05

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why dont you go after the women you like as oppose to just looking for women who you think you should be going after?
 

RandallP

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I see ugly dudes with hot chicks all the time. Don't worry bout what you look like. Looks only get you so far.
 

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You are clearly not confident in yourself.

Why not approach and date all types of women. Opposites attract you know.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Go for girls who arent Ho's!!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Deniska

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You not in any specific category, so dont label your self. So date who you want to date, geeks, athletes, professionals, etc. What ever floats your boat.

And you cant find your self. You already here, the saying "finding my self" is misused, unless you are mentally insane and have lost your mind. But what you need to do, is become the person you want to be for the rest of your life.

Right now you dont know who you are, and thats ok, it takes many years for many people to figure out who they are. So your first step is to figure out who you are or who you want to be as a person, and once you do, grow as that person.
 

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Whatever you do, don't go after the redheads, save them for me ;)

Go hit on what you like. Omega said it best.
 

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go for women you find attractive. If they don't find you attractive then whatever, find more women. Just think of it as their loss.
 

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That's what I've been doing, going after women I find attractive. But still haven't had a relationship longer than a couple weeks. I'm sure once I get into a relationship, I'll wish that I didn't. LOL The grass is always greener on the other side.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Kal0051

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razkay said:
That's what I've been doing, going after women I find attractive. But still haven't had a relationship longer than a couple weeks. I'm sure once I get into a relationship, I'll wish that I didn't. LOL The grass is always greener on the other side.
well, maybe there's a reason you haven't had a relationship longer than a couple weeks. But no one on the internet can tell you why that is, at least without more info.
 
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