"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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how to know how you talk like.

Suckaazzclown

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A lot of posts are all around talkin about how your voice tellz you about how you sound.

Well, I got a tip that you may find helpful.

I used to sound kinda funny. But now, I ain't got that ****ty problem no' mo.

All y'all playaz got a cellphone.

There's a feature in there called Voice Recording.

That **** will help you! Talk into it and hear how you sound! That's what women be hearin! That's how you sound like! Adjust your voice until it sounds right..

Now, when I talk to women...they be like, "God dam! That's a MAN!

Senor Fingaz got his **** right! You GOTS to change yo' voice to sound kinda manly. Use your cellphone. You'd be surprised how much you sound like a whiney beeyatch!

LATA PLAYAZ!!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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GloriouslyInsane

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There are things you can do to improve your voice that will definitely work,like slowing down,and thinking before you speak (so that you don't stutter,stop mid-sentence and you sound clear).
 

shiningshadow

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If you've got a mic on your computer you can use that as well.
 

Deadly_Assassin

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I had a lot women say to me that my voice is sounds really deep.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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paraguayandj

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aight
 

de silva

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Get a video camera and record yourself (well, get someone else to do it, I mean) at get togethers with your friends, especially when you're drinking. You'll probably be shocked and disappointed with how you sound and act, but don't brush it off as simply "oh, everyone's like that on camera". Identify areas you can improve and get to work improving them. You can monitor your progress by successive recordings. As a bonus, you'll have a record of 'fond memories' to reminisce over when you're older.
 

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GloriouslyInsane said:
....and thinking before you speak (so that you don't stutter,stop mid-sentence and you sound clear).
:nono:
not always..it might shut down your brain,so the speech :)
 

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I find that I stutter when I think of something really funny/smooth, and in my effort to say it I stutter and screw up the delivery.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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try doing vocalizations. singers and stage actors do this before a show. this helps them a lot in projecting a fuller voice. i've tried doing it and it works wonders. even if you just speak in a low voice, it will be booming (not in a bad way) because your vocal chords are streched. plus don't just speak using your vocal cords. use your diaphragms instead. it's like pushing your midsection to squeeze the air out of your lungs.
 
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