"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Suckaazzclown

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A lot of posts are all around talkin about how your voice tellz you about how you sound.

Well, I got a tip that you may find helpful.

I used to sound kinda funny. But now, I ain't got that ****ty problem no' mo.

All y'all playaz got a cellphone.

There's a feature in there called Voice Recording.

That **** will help you! Talk into it and hear how you sound! That's what women be hearin! That's how you sound like! Adjust your voice until it sounds right..

Now, when I talk to women...they be like, "God dam! That's a MAN!

Senor Fingaz got his **** right! You GOTS to change yo' voice to sound kinda manly. Use your cellphone. You'd be surprised how much you sound like a whiney beeyatch!

LATA PLAYAZ!!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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GloriouslyInsane

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There are things you can do to improve your voice that will definitely work,like slowing down,and thinking before you speak (so that you don't stutter,stop mid-sentence and you sound clear).
 

shiningshadow

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If you've got a mic on your computer you can use that as well.
 

Deadly_Assassin

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I had a lot women say to me that my voice is sounds really deep.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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paraguayandj

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aight
 

de silva

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Get a video camera and record yourself (well, get someone else to do it, I mean) at get togethers with your friends, especially when you're drinking. You'll probably be shocked and disappointed with how you sound and act, but don't brush it off as simply "oh, everyone's like that on camera". Identify areas you can improve and get to work improving them. You can monitor your progress by successive recordings. As a bonus, you'll have a record of 'fond memories' to reminisce over when you're older.
 

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GloriouslyInsane said:
....and thinking before you speak (so that you don't stutter,stop mid-sentence and you sound clear).
:nono:
not always..it might shut down your brain,so the speech :)
 

shiningshadow

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I find that I stutter when I think of something really funny/smooth, and in my effort to say it I stutter and screw up the delivery.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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try doing vocalizations. singers and stage actors do this before a show. this helps them a lot in projecting a fuller voice. i've tried doing it and it works wonders. even if you just speak in a low voice, it will be booming (not in a bad way) because your vocal chords are streched. plus don't just speak using your vocal cords. use your diaphragms instead. it's like pushing your midsection to squeeze the air out of your lungs.
 
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