"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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how to know how you talk like.

Suckaazzclown

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A lot of posts are all around talkin about how your voice tellz you about how you sound.

Well, I got a tip that you may find helpful.

I used to sound kinda funny. But now, I ain't got that ****ty problem no' mo.

All y'all playaz got a cellphone.

There's a feature in there called Voice Recording.

That **** will help you! Talk into it and hear how you sound! That's what women be hearin! That's how you sound like! Adjust your voice until it sounds right..

Now, when I talk to women...they be like, "God dam! That's a MAN!

Senor Fingaz got his **** right! You GOTS to change yo' voice to sound kinda manly. Use your cellphone. You'd be surprised how much you sound like a whiney beeyatch!

LATA PLAYAZ!!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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GloriouslyInsane

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There are things you can do to improve your voice that will definitely work,like slowing down,and thinking before you speak (so that you don't stutter,stop mid-sentence and you sound clear).
 

shiningshadow

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If you've got a mic on your computer you can use that as well.
 

Deadly_Assassin

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I had a lot women say to me that my voice is sounds really deep.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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paraguayandj

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aight
 

de silva

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Get a video camera and record yourself (well, get someone else to do it, I mean) at get togethers with your friends, especially when you're drinking. You'll probably be shocked and disappointed with how you sound and act, but don't brush it off as simply "oh, everyone's like that on camera". Identify areas you can improve and get to work improving them. You can monitor your progress by successive recordings. As a bonus, you'll have a record of 'fond memories' to reminisce over when you're older.
 

piterx

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GloriouslyInsane said:
....and thinking before you speak (so that you don't stutter,stop mid-sentence and you sound clear).
:nono:
not always..it might shut down your brain,so the speech :)
 

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I find that I stutter when I think of something really funny/smooth, and in my effort to say it I stutter and screw up the delivery.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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try doing vocalizations. singers and stage actors do this before a show. this helps them a lot in projecting a fuller voice. i've tried doing it and it works wonders. even if you just speak in a low voice, it will be booming (not in a bad way) because your vocal chords are streched. plus don't just speak using your vocal cords. use your diaphragms instead. it's like pushing your midsection to squeeze the air out of your lungs.
 
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