"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How to keep the power, what's her issue

Stephen89

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My sister ignored me for years 2005-2012, reacted angrily, spoke angrily,selfish, bossy in the house, put me down a lot, not reciprocate anything, disrespectful, not tell anything ever, lie, play games, self absorbed, spoke to me with one word

Do not reciprocate anything to me,

Personal to me why does she want to know,

Don´t say nothing, don´t reciprocate

Twists things such as evidence

Don´t stand up, never, leaves things

Never know

She says nothing ever

Disrespect

She said why do I wish to know the music

Tells any info

Tells nothing to me

Never listen, disrespect, tells nothing,

She controls

She doesn´t care, she just ruins my dignity

She says nothing to me

-+++

And she believed anything people say, they could make fake stuff up

Overall, what´s her problem, she´s gone against me, and her own parents

Over the top narcissist

But why and she didn't stand up to me to that cousin bully, she tells lies and tells nothing to me, a complete disregard for me and my father

She says everything to them, nothing to me ever

-+++++--+

and made it look like in the problem

she did not say nothing to him, she said you say it, she lied

She doesn't listen to me approaching women and don't tell others

Overall what's her problem? It ruins my dignity, takes away my power

She said regarding the years I've endured bullying, abuse from the cousin

"all in my head"

"I've got Mental issues"

"That cousin has done nothing wrong"

"You say it that I've reported him"

"If you got issues speak to him"-im not the one with t problem

"Why don't you talk to him"

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She made me look like a liar when I reported the cousin to the police a few times, the quotes are her words, she did not stand up to me and she for sure will get angry

She says nothing to me and for sure, a liar, disrespectful, twist things, give out any info

How to keep the power and not give it away:

-never be there
-keep my distance
-be away
-dont care
-dont think
-dont engage with them
-be silent
-Ignore
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Stephen89

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I don't know what to do with the games played, emotional abuse
 

BackInTheGame78

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Sounds like you have some deep seated personal issues you need to deal with and have issues with family membera at the same time.

You've got to find a way to let all of it go. Not for them, for your own sake and mental health.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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BillyPilgrim

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Pretty simple, keep your distance as much as you can. Don't engage unless you have to.
 
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