"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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How to instantly gain 1 point in S.M.V

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AKA common sense when dealing with people. You don't want to smell like a barn (or worse).


Nah, PUA blazers don't have to be velvet.

RSD Tyler used to wear a blazer a lot:


Here's a pic from the old TV show The Pickup Artist that Mystery had, lol:
No wonder these sissy men wear blazers - it's like a bald man wearing a cap. If I wore a blazer, I'd be hiding my naturally masculine frame; why would I do that? :down: My advice is to leave the blazer at home and PUMP IRON.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I used to agree with this. Now I feel like the best outfit is a fit body.
Here is an example to prove my point:

Pretend that they aren’t famous.
Ed Sheerhan walks into a bar with a nice designer suit.
10 min later Dwayne the Rock Johnson walks in with a tight fitted Walmart T-shirt ..

Who are the girls eyeing? Remember to pretend they aren’t famous.
 

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I used to agree with this. Now I feel like the best outfit is a fit body.
Here is an example to prove my point:

Pretend that they aren’t famous.
Ed Sheerhan walks into a bar with a nice designer suit.
10 min later Dwayne the Rock Johnson walks in with a tight fitted Walmart T-shirt ..

Who are the girls eyeing? Remember to pretend they aren’t famous.
I completely agree ... most chicks would take a tall looking jacked guy over a meh looking rich guy..

but in all fairness this is about gaining an instant 1 point in smv .. not so much working on yourself for 6 months before anyone notices.

Im 155 ... been that way my whole life.. style is the way to go for me.
 

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Hygiene is fvcking standard behaviour as a man, I shower twice a day, hair cut every 12-15 days, always smelling good. I have tooth brush, cologne, deodorant, ties, shoe brush, comb etc all in a draw at work so I am always on point. Some people laugh but I feel good.

I started wearing blazers and pocket squares, always get compliments.

I rock them with jeans/shoes/shirt and very easily customizable and turn into a new outfit easily.

I picked another up last week in a sale, £100 down to £30 absolute bargain.

See me rolling down the street on 10 toes like:

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dark jeans and brown shoe/belt combo is my favourite. Matching/complimenting shirt and pocket square have the ladies wet.
 

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I didn't know this was such a contentious issue. Who cares what other people think or wear? I sure as fukk don't. I wear what I want.
I also ... wear what I want
Hygiene is fvcking standard behaviour as a man, I shower twice a day, hair cut every 12-15 days, always smelling good. I have tooth brush, cologne, deodorant, ties, shoe brush, comb etc all in a draw at work so I am always on point. Some people laugh but I feel good.

I started wearing blazers and pocket squares, always get compliments.

I rock them with jeans/shoes/shirt and very easily customizable and turn into a new outfit easily.

I picked another up last week in a sale, £100 down to £30 absolute bargain.

See me rolling down the street on 10 toes like:

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dark jeans and brown shoe/belt combo is my favourite. Matching/complimenting shirt and pocket square have the ladies wet.
Represent my man.. I'm not quite on your level yet but I'll get there.

My guess is that you have never been to a standard suburban bar in the midwest .. Good hygene is RARE ... sometimes I smell hot looking girls that smell like old unwashed hair and body sweat. Instant turn off.. I'm looking at you Laurin!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Ed Sheerhan walks into a bar with a nice designer suit.
10 min later Dwayne the Rock Johnson walks in with a tight fitted Walmart T-shirt ..

Who are the girls eyeing?
I agree with your point.

But The Rock has always had that sex symbol vibe to him, the girls have always liked him. There have been plenty of wrestlers in the WWE who were jacked, but didn't get the kind of reaction The Rock did, so I'm not sure it's a fair comparison. Some guys have "it", and he is definitely one of them.
 

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Honestly, it's amazing how many people utterly disregard their personal ****ing hygiene. Combine that with ****ty dress and being either clinically obese or scrawny, and you're one unattractive mess.

Wear clothes that fit, guys. Especially if you're small and skinny, wearing clothes that are too big for you only makes your body look smaller.
 
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