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girl tells me she likes me but doesn't want to be in a relationship right now.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
how to handle this
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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anyone??
keeprolling said:girl tells me she likes me but doesn't want to be in a relationship right now.
you should respect that, and kind of branch out and keep talking to other girls in the meantime
maybe it will make her jealous
but that excuse kind of leads me to say, if she really liked you she would want to be in a relationship with you
trust me ive heard that crap, ALOT before i found this site, she was just putting me down nicely
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but the thing is, she really does like me. She's told other people.
keeprolling said:but the thing is, she really does like me. She's told other people.
try to date non-exclusively?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
keeprolling
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Idk, but do you think she might want the whole friends with benefits thing?
I would suggest it, I personally have never done this, but she might go for it as she has said she doesnt want a relationshipkeeprolling said:Idk, but do you think she might want the whole friends with benefits thing?
Daddy The Pimp
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What she's really saying is that she thinks she like you but you're failing to make her more attracted to you that her emotions will overtake her and make her give in to you.
Game her hardcore. Build sexual tension. Tell her you're trustworthy, sex worthy and discreet. And you'll get her. Just the fact that you're discreet and sex worthy will get you any girl you want. ANY!
Game her hardcore. Build sexual tension. Tell her you're trustworthy, sex worthy and discreet. And you'll get her. Just the fact that you're discreet and sex worthy will get you any girl you want. ANY!
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Thanks Guys!
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.