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girl tells me she likes me but doesn't want to be in a relationship right now.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
how to handle this
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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anyone??
keeprolling said:girl tells me she likes me but doesn't want to be in a relationship right now.
you should respect that, and kind of branch out and keep talking to other girls in the meantime
maybe it will make her jealous
but that excuse kind of leads me to say, if she really liked you she would want to be in a relationship with you
trust me ive heard that crap, ALOT before i found this site, she was just putting me down nicely
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but the thing is, she really does like me. She's told other people.
keeprolling said:but the thing is, she really does like me. She's told other people.
try to date non-exclusively?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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Idk, but do you think she might want the whole friends with benefits thing?
I would suggest it, I personally have never done this, but she might go for it as she has said she doesnt want a relationshipkeeprolling said:Idk, but do you think she might want the whole friends with benefits thing?
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What she's really saying is that she thinks she like you but you're failing to make her more attracted to you that her emotions will overtake her and make her give in to you.
Game her hardcore. Build sexual tension. Tell her you're trustworthy, sex worthy and discreet. And you'll get her. Just the fact that you're discreet and sex worthy will get you any girl you want. ANY!
Game her hardcore. Build sexual tension. Tell her you're trustworthy, sex worthy and discreet. And you'll get her. Just the fact that you're discreet and sex worthy will get you any girl you want. ANY!
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Thanks Guys!
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.