"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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keeprolling

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girl tells me she likes me but doesn't want to be in a relationship right now.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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keeprolling said:
girl tells me she likes me but doesn't want to be in a relationship right now.

you should respect that, and kind of branch out and keep talking to other girls in the meantime

maybe it will make her jealous

but that excuse kind of leads me to say, if she really liked you she would want to be in a relationship with you

trust me ive heard that crap, ALOT before i found this site, she was just putting me down nicely
 

cw92

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keeprolling said:
but the thing is, she really does like me. She's told other people.

try to date non-exclusively?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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keeprolling

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Idk, but do you think she might want the whole friends with benefits thing?
 

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keeprolling said:
Idk, but do you think she might want the whole friends with benefits thing?
I would suggest it, I personally have never done this, but she might go for it as she has said she doesnt want a relationship
 

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Hang out with her and make a move, if she stops you and tells you "blah blah blah no relationship blah blah blah," then smile and say "sounds good" and continue.
 

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What she's really saying is that she thinks she like you but you're failing to make her more attracted to you that her emotions will overtake her and make her give in to you.

Game her hardcore. Build sexual tension. Tell her you're trustworthy, sex worthy and discreet. And you'll get her. Just the fact that you're discreet and sex worthy will get you any girl you want. ANY!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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