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girl tells me she likes me but doesn't want to be in a relationship right now.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
how to handle this
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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anyone??
keeprolling said:girl tells me she likes me but doesn't want to be in a relationship right now.
you should respect that, and kind of branch out and keep talking to other girls in the meantime
maybe it will make her jealous
but that excuse kind of leads me to say, if she really liked you she would want to be in a relationship with you
trust me ive heard that crap, ALOT before i found this site, she was just putting me down nicely
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but the thing is, she really does like me. She's told other people.
keeprolling said:but the thing is, she really does like me. She's told other people.
try to date non-exclusively?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Idk, but do you think she might want the whole friends with benefits thing?
I would suggest it, I personally have never done this, but she might go for it as she has said she doesnt want a relationshipkeeprolling said:Idk, but do you think she might want the whole friends with benefits thing?
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What she's really saying is that she thinks she like you but you're failing to make her more attracted to you that her emotions will overtake her and make her give in to you.
Game her hardcore. Build sexual tension. Tell her you're trustworthy, sex worthy and discreet. And you'll get her. Just the fact that you're discreet and sex worthy will get you any girl you want. ANY!
Game her hardcore. Build sexual tension. Tell her you're trustworthy, sex worthy and discreet. And you'll get her. Just the fact that you're discreet and sex worthy will get you any girl you want. ANY!
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Thanks Guys!
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.