Getting laid is like eating icecream. Do you have a "game" plan for eating icecream?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
How to handle "Give me your number instead"
- Thread starter bigneil
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
If ice cream was hard to get, would you obsess over it as well?
SgtSplacker
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Girl asked me for my number I told her it was a little creepy for her to ask that.
devilkingx2
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ice cream is fvcking amazing brah, bad example
womensview
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If she is interested she will give u her number. Otherwise its a blow off in my view. I wish I could, but I have learned the hard way not to do that till I know someone first. She will either give it to you or not. Its also a conversation starter.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Von
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I give it, say it was nice to meet her and expect nothing... than move on to another girl to seduce (even if she's in the same room).
Unless she goes out of her ways (like asking friends).... than I presume it: ''No don't call me, I call you.... and never call''
Unless she goes out of her ways (like asking friends).... than I presume it: ''No don't call me, I call you.... and never call''
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Drop her and move on. You can do better anyway. Keep trying just makes you the chaser=you have lost. All she gets is lots of attention when she's not giving head to her College Football boyfriend.
Signals aren't mixed. Just positive and negative.
Signals aren't mixed. Just positive and negative.