Getting laid is like eating icecream. Do you have a "game" plan for eating icecream?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
How to handle "Give me your number instead"
- Thread starter bigneil
- Start date
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
If ice cream was hard to get, would you obsess over it as well?
SgtSplacker
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Aug 18, 2011
- Messages
- 2,039
- Reaction score
- 504
Girl asked me for my number I told her it was a little creepy for her to ask that.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
ice cream is fvcking amazing brah, bad example
womensview
Banned
- Joined
- Sep 3, 2016
- Messages
- 58
- Reaction score
- 7
- Age
- 71
If she is interested she will give u her number. Otherwise its a blow off in my view. I wish I could, but I have learned the hard way not to do that till I know someone first. She will either give it to you or not. Its also a conversation starter.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Von
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Jan 23, 2016
- Messages
- 2,189
- Reaction score
- 1,221
- Age
- 37
I give it, say it was nice to meet her and expect nothing... than move on to another girl to seduce (even if she's in the same room).
Unless she goes out of her ways (like asking friends).... than I presume it: ''No don't call me, I call you.... and never call''
Unless she goes out of her ways (like asking friends).... than I presume it: ''No don't call me, I call you.... and never call''
nismo-4
Moderator
- Joined
- Jan 31, 2005
- Messages
- 4,439
- Reaction score
- 1,143
Drop her and move on. You can do better anyway. Keep trying just makes you the chaser=you have lost. All she gets is lots of attention when she's not giving head to her College Football boyfriend.
Signals aren't mixed. Just positive and negative.
Signals aren't mixed. Just positive and negative.