Getting laid is like eating icecream. Do you have a "game" plan for eating icecream?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
How to handle "Give me your number instead"
- Thread starter bigneil
- Start date
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
If ice cream was hard to get, would you obsess over it as well?
SgtSplacker
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Girl asked me for my number I told her it was a little creepy for her to ask that.
devilkingx2
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ice cream is fvcking amazing brah, bad example
womensview
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If she is interested she will give u her number. Otherwise its a blow off in my view. I wish I could, but I have learned the hard way not to do that till I know someone first. She will either give it to you or not. Its also a conversation starter.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Von
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I give it, say it was nice to meet her and expect nothing... than move on to another girl to seduce (even if she's in the same room).
Unless she goes out of her ways (like asking friends).... than I presume it: ''No don't call me, I call you.... and never call''
Unless she goes out of her ways (like asking friends).... than I presume it: ''No don't call me, I call you.... and never call''
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Drop her and move on. You can do better anyway. Keep trying just makes you the chaser=you have lost. All she gets is lots of attention when she's not giving head to her College Football boyfriend.
Signals aren't mixed. Just positive and negative.
Signals aren't mixed. Just positive and negative.