Getting laid is like eating icecream. Do you have a "game" plan for eating icecream?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
How to handle "Give me your number instead"
- Thread starter bigneil
- Start date
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
If ice cream was hard to get, would you obsess over it as well?
SgtSplacker
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Girl asked me for my number I told her it was a little creepy for her to ask that.
devilkingx2
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ice cream is fvcking amazing brah, bad example
womensview
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If she is interested she will give u her number. Otherwise its a blow off in my view. I wish I could, but I have learned the hard way not to do that till I know someone first. She will either give it to you or not. Its also a conversation starter.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Von
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I give it, say it was nice to meet her and expect nothing... than move on to another girl to seduce (even if she's in the same room).
Unless she goes out of her ways (like asking friends).... than I presume it: ''No don't call me, I call you.... and never call''
Unless she goes out of her ways (like asking friends).... than I presume it: ''No don't call me, I call you.... and never call''
nismo-4
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Drop her and move on. You can do better anyway. Keep trying just makes you the chaser=you have lost. All she gets is lots of attention when she's not giving head to her College Football boyfriend.
Signals aren't mixed. Just positive and negative.
Signals aren't mixed. Just positive and negative.