Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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How to grab her attention again.!?

David muñoz

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Don Juanes...

Here is the thing, a few months ago i had a date with a beautiful girl, at first it was good but after days she stop to text me, she had a strange behavior, she flaked on me with a new date so I messed it up and start text her a lot, show her my feelings, even buy her flowers & one bracelet. Guess what... she didn't answer me.

I know I was wrong but it doesn't matter to me. By the time I cut off the communication with her 2 weeks ago.

So I need your help, what do I supposed to do with her?
Do I text her again?
Why should I text ?

I can't see her in person because of my lack of time...

So it's up to you

Thank u.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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David muñoz

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You're right, I know my mistake, I only know if there's a way to amend it. I'll read what u give me in the link, thanks.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ohrein

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There is approximately a 0.01% chance of you scoring that chick now that you've been excessively interested AND she's no longer replying. You'll be lucky if she doesn't call the cops in preparation for you stalking her.
 

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You pursued and gifted her when she backed off after one date. Go NC starting now and go after other girls. Maybe she comes back, maybe she doesn’t. You came off appearing needy with this one and she’s not in the charity business.
 
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devilkingx2

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when she stops responding there is a 0% chance of it working out
 
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